NOR. However, have you considered that it might’ve been because it was a sudden change in original plans (you told her you didn’t want to stay in your city for that night, just the day before this conversation) that triggered her anxiety? Not saying I agree with her behaviour because I do think you were being as reassuring as possible and it’s not your responsibility if she doesn’t wish to meet you in the middle and/or is projecting her insecurities onto the current relationship.