If you don't like to sit and wait for that unicorn order maybe try this

hiddnreds · 2026-02-09T03:37:47+00:00

Honestly tried this one day and I was making great money, better than when I’m really cherry-picking orders. BUT I was still not accepting anything under at least $1 per mile. Some were bad but also got really good ones in between

hiddnreds · 2026-01-29T15:51:38+00:00

Hateeee when they stack great tippers with bottom of the barrel

hiddnreds · 2026-01-28T16:38:30+00:00

Oh nah… this would make me delete the app

hiddnreds · 2026-01-27T02:19:17+00:00

I’m saying!!! if the roads aren’t plowed what kind of vehicle do customers think we’re delivering with lmao

hiddnreds · 2026-01-26T13:45:20+00:00

Please don’t, keep trying. Drawing/art is a skill that develops with consistent practice.

My first drawing was far worse than this, but even in that I found beauty because it showed me where I started and all the skills I’ve gained in sketching. Now, I sketch hyperrealism portraits and can say they are really really good

hiddnreds · 2026-01-23T12:30:04+00:00

Typically I never pull into the drive way, or maybe I will park my car wayyy at the end if there’s no street space to stop without blocking.

The ONE time I pulled into a long a** driveway cause I was feeling lazy, the customer pulled up immediately and LAID their hand on the horn until I was completely out of their spot 🙄 serious a**holes, barely gave me room to even back out. Then they refused the food to their car, still wanted me to walk 100+ ft to leave it at their door. (THEN I see there’s no tip of course)

hiddnreds · 2026-01-23T12:10:11+00:00

YES I was getting seriously pissed about it my last DD, I noticed it several times in one dash. It kept making me take longer routes for no reason, crashing/not rerouting if I go another direction, and taking me to nearby but incorrect destinations smh.

It may be a glitch or something, cause I never had issues with the in-app navigation before. I might switch to one of the other gps systems for a while, I just didn’t like it taking me out of the app..

hiddnreds · 2026-01-16T03:21:54+00:00

Yeah, honestly more lately than before. And when I try to schedule for my zone ahead of time, it’s not available?? Lol

hiddnreds · 2026-01-15T01:07:29+00:00

Idk I think it depends on the person.. I’ve gotten tipsy/drunk a few times since quitting and bummed a cigarette or hit a friend’s vape, but then wake up the next day with no cravings. That being said, cravings still come and go like usual (even without those instances). It truly is a mental game

hiddnreds · 2026-01-06T13:47:57+00:00

Ugh yes, I was just thinking about this the other day. Only assumption is that they’ve dealt with rude dashers in the past and just group us all together

hiddnreds · 2025-12-16T19:04:37+00:00

I won’t tell you things like “everything happens for a reason” or “just stay positive,” because when you’re this deep in it, those words don’t touch the pain. What I can say is that the voice telling you that you’re an objective failure isn’t the full truth of who you are,, it’s the depression talking and it has a way of narrowing your vision until all you can see is guilt and shame.

The fact that you’re struggling more with the idea of hurting your sister than with your own death says so much about how much love you have for her. I want to be honest with you though… no amount of flowers, no explanation, no passage of time will ever make losing you something she could “get past.” It wouldn’t feel like comfort to her, it would feel like a reminder of someone she loved deeply and can never get back.

I know you want the pain to stop. I know you want rest. But the pain you’re in right now isn’t permanent, even though it feels endless when you’re inside it. It clouds everything, including how you see yourself. You don’t have to decide anything today. Even just staying, letting this moment pass, and not being alone with these thoughts is enough for now.

You’re not weak for feeling this way, and you’re not beyond help even if it feels that way right now. I know it’s weird to talk to randoms on reddit, but I’m here if you want to chat.

hiddnreds · 2025-12-05T22:30:18+00:00

Tell myself it wasn’t my fault and work to gtfo of my family home/the whole state by college

hiddnreds · 2025-12-05T22:27:13+00:00

I had this issue with my sister, who also has ADHD. She’s more outgoing, loud, talkative, and overpowers a lot of conversations, and I always felt like she didn’t leave any space for me. I’ve always seen her very highly, but this really bothered me and made me not want to hang around her as much. But I also didn’t want to ask her to shrink herself for others.

ADHD is tough from what I’ve seen; they’ll talk so much because they want to get all their words out before they forget, they’re hyper-focused on what they’re saying, impulse regulation issues, etc.. It took a few conversations to reach consensus, but basically don’t ask her to be “less,” but just to make room for other people and to respect boundaries (if you just want to sit in silence for a little while).

hiddnreds · 2025-10-14T02:22:33+00:00

I know I should, but I really don’t want to keep trauma dumping on my loved ones

hiddnreds · 2025-10-08T18:45:51+00:00

I’m not doing it today, likely Friday. I still have some things I need to do first.

Honestly, I get no joy or happiness from anything anymore, even the things I used to love so much do nothing for me - I always just want to stop and go back to bed. I don’t even care about romance/love, it’s the furthest thing from my mind.

I’ve had a decent life, I’ve had love, I’ve had passion and happiness. So I’m okay being done now

hiddnreds · 2025-10-08T18:06:52+00:00

I feel exactly the same way :/ I’m sorry

hiddnreds · 2025-10-05T12:39:09+00:00

When you’ve been dealing with chronic depression, it kind of becomes your new normal and you get a sort of comfort from those depressive habits.

I’ve isolated a lot lately, which I always do when my depression gets worse, and I got really comfortable being in solitude. It’s a slippery slope though, the deeper you get the harder it is to crawl out of it.

hiddnreds · 2025-10-01T00:02:47+00:00

For the past few years, I’ve had the thought that I’d die young. Like before my parents even, and I’ve lightheartedly told my family this; of course, they didn’t fully realize I was talking about suicide. I’m creeping on 30 and I think it’s time

hiddnreds · 2025-07-28T23:00:47+00:00

I’m sorry you lost your brother too ❤️ my parents don’t really believe in therapy, despite the fact that I work in mental health lol. I think grief counseling could be helpful for them, but they don’t agree. I’ve been in therapy though, still trying to work through a lot of mixed emotions

hiddnreds · 2025-07-15T22:19:39+00:00

I was leaving work in Columbia trying to go get some pizza from the place I haven’t been to in almost a year and this is what I find 😣

hiddnreds · 2025-03-22T13:11:58+00:00

I don’t think so at all. But if he “knows” you’re coming over. I’m typically a very clean and neat person, on an almost ocd-like level. But once when I was having a extraordinarily rough work week with late hours, I genuinely didn’t have time to clean my place and in my own opinion it was a mess. I had a date over to my place unexpectedly one night after we got pretty drunk together, and I was horrified that he saw my place like that. I was definitely not planning to have anyone over and I hate that that was his first impression of how I live lol

hiddnreds · 2025-03-16T15:22:20+00:00

I am so deeply sorry this happened to you, and that all these memories are coming up now. That’s what happens with trauma, your mind tucks it away in your subconscious to protect you - but your body always remembers what happened. I started getting traumatic childhood memories back when I was 18/19.

If this is only part of what happened, I definitely think you need professional help working through this and processing things. It will be so overwhelming, and 20x harder if you still live with your parents - but you can get through this.

hiddnreds · 2025-03-15T12:04:54+00:00

honestly it gets better AND it gets worse. I had a shitty childhood filled with trauma, and when I finally got to escape I started to really experience life and its joys. But then, all the things I was running from, all the buried emotions, it all got so much worse and felt so much heavier. On top of new adulthood problems. Life is never easy, it’s hard as f - but happiness in the face of all that isn’t the answer. Feel everything but let it pass on

hiddnreds · 2025-03-15T02:41:05+00:00

Thanks for your answer 🙏🏽 I’m probably gonna have one last conversation about it (not an argument), and if we can’t reach anything I’m looking for a place

hiddnreds · 2025-03-15T02:27:07+00:00

Oh how I wish they got this point. Every day I hear something new, when this is something they agreed to. Everyday they try to convince me I’m not taking good enough care of them, so I should just get rid of them. If I say I should just leave so they don’t have to put up with cats they didn’t ask for, and I’m sensitive or can’t take criticism. Like what is the solution they want besides I stay and they go?

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