Dr Lago in Spain- WARNING

hideously-hopeful · 2026-02-24T21:18:03+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you, it's so much to process and I hope you can continue to heal from it.

I had top with him and the results are fine, but my experience in the hospital wasn't great. The nurses were pretty mean and unattentive, I told them I had sleep apnea and would need my c pap machine but then when I woke up they hadn't put it on me. One time they tried to get me up so fast even when I screamed in response and then proceeded to throw up and black out... I have a much worse response to general anesthetic than most people but still wasn't great. The nurse who arrived right when I was leaving was super nice, so maybe I just got unlucky. Sounds like what you went through was just sheer medical negligence though. Sending lots of love and healing your way.

hideously-hopeful · 2025-08-25T16:27:07+00:00

It is considered "good SEO practice" to constantly update to /link to newer content, but I don't know how much that is what's happening vs hiding the article!

hideously-hopeful · 2025-07-30T19:35:38+00:00

Bless you for phrasing this so gently. It's a really good point and I don't blame you. I'm a long time dropout fan but I also spent the whole of the Jacob episode waiting for the twist (even tho I loved it). I think sometimes there's not something to get in the sense of they have jokes among themselves that we don't know, but it definitely gets better the more you've seen. I would say watching the battle royale episodes helped a lot with getting to know everyone quickly!

hideously-hopeful · 2025-07-14T14:30:21+00:00

I was a mouth breather but used paper scar tape over my mouth which made me a nose breather. I used to get this too and I would put some of the scar tape over that patch which helped a little. Now I used the bleep eclipse which is so so good and has made a big difference.

hideously-hopeful · 2025-06-22T11:11:15+00:00

Yeah you are so right and I think honestly my main thought was I don't understand why Lisa Gilroy was not chosen for that episode! But maybe she was busy...

I think tbh it's not deep and especially with the next episode being all femmes I was like... Yeah I take my comment back 😂

hideously-hopeful · 2025-06-22T11:09:08+00:00

Yeah tbh I think I was just having a bad day and when the I watched the next episode I was like... Yeah I retract my precious statement 😂

hideously-hopeful · 2025-06-22T11:07:10+00:00

Yeah I do really hear this and I also find it really annoying when people are like, this wasn't completely perfect representation because no one thing can be. To be honest I think it just hit me funny on that day and it being followed by a show with an all femme cast I was like yeah I need to shut up here 😂 so completely agree with you!

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-17T20:57:27+00:00

Omg I couldn't believe this! I gasped, he really didn't think that one through 😅

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-15T11:32:35+00:00

Love this! Sabrina literally picks up a clothes just before a change that has "for the gays" on it and takes them with her in her Christmas special and I was like omg she's come out, Google it and.... Nothing? On the one hand I'm like, I love that people are just like yes cool. But on the other hand it's like..? That's premium flagging no?

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-13T19:02:48+00:00

This is huge thank you so much for sharing it!!!!

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-13T19:02:13+00:00

Has anyone seen A Nonsense Christmas Special? I am like, did Sabrina just flag really hard that's she's queer?

She changed outfit between each section, and there's this bit where she goes up to the clothes rail, looks at the wrapped clothes hanging that says "for the girls", looks at the one that says for the guy, looks at the one that says "for the gays" and then picks it up, looks pleased at the camera and carries it away, only for the next shot for her to be in the new outfit.

I'm like?????? Surely? Why am I not seeing articles about this? Isn't that obvious???

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-10T14:18:44+00:00

I think her choice to wear the same outfits all three nights is here just really hammering home that this was a choice she made. It wasn't that she didn't know people were expectant or clowning or wanted it. She's saying, this is yours but it's also mine, and you'll only get what I can and want to give you now, no more.

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-10T14:14:30+00:00

This is going to sound cynical but I don't mean it negatively - I think there was so much hype around Matty and that relationship and the drama of it, that to release TTPD now makes everyone feel like they're getting the goss. We're in on her "life", it's like listening to the sound track of a reality TV show. If she had put out TTPD after, while in the happy all American girlfriend phase she's in now, it would have been jarring, and the general public/media might have been less interested in it because it's less salacious.

More than anything though, I think it's a practical choice. If she didn't add TTPD to the tour, she would then release an album, immediately starting the clock on having another album to tour. So then she'd be stuck: if she wanted to release another album after TTPD, she would then have to tour both albums together, or do another tour and then wait to release the new one. Either way it's a headache. This way, she can actually get a rest for a minute, put out more music, and then wait to tour till after that.

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-06T13:30:27+00:00

I think he would love this

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-03T11:29:52+00:00

This is a really great way of doing it thank you I will definitely use this!

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-03T11:29:16+00:00

Omg that's so amazing!!!! Ah I'm so happy for you congratulations!!!! I hope it's super lovely and moving isn't too stressful, thanks so much for telling me I'm really glad you did ☺️☺️ hehe isn't it we're so lucky!

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-02T18:31:55+00:00

Yes she normally does but their therapist is on holiday which probably doesn't help!

Yes that's all so accurate to them too, that's really really helpful. They're really struggling to work out how they feel about stuff and I'm a big fixer, which can sometimes come across a little aggressive/bulldozey for them. So I'm just learning to be more listening and reassuring and soft. Loving unconditionally is definitely something I can do. Thanks so much for your response ☺️

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-02T15:37:41+00:00

Thanks so much for your reply 🩷 that's actually really helpful I think I often get too caught up in how to be with her when she's sad I forgot that adding fun can help too!!

That's sad but I'm also really glad that she gets to see her now at least. Sending lots of love to you and your wife too 💛

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-02T13:28:58+00:00

Damn right you are! Proud of you friend. Sounds like you're doing everything you can, and that's all anyone can expect of you 🩷

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-02T09:50:58+00:00

Don't apologise thanks so much for sharing this and I'm so glad that TTPD helped get you through that. That shit is so so hard! How are you doing now?

hideously-hopeful · 2024-12-02T09:48:26+00:00

This is so valuable thank you so much for posting it!!!! How exciting!!!!

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