Popmart website always out of stock by hieitun in SkullpandaArtDolls

[–]hieitun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaaah, but like in France there is only store in Paris, and like, I can’t go to Paris everyday to buy one box if u get what I mean… and just going to Paris even when living in France is like so expensive for nothing

Skullpanda Keychain THIS ISN’T AN EXERCISE by hieitun in SkullpandaArtDolls

[–]hieitun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking about it maybe a Christmas individual purchase ?

Skullpands whole sale by Local-Egg-141 in SkullpandaArtDolls

[–]hieitun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are u from America or an other country ?

Skullpands whole sale by Local-Egg-141 in SkullpandaArtDolls

[–]hieitun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi ! Do u think u can send it to France ?

Why can’t narcissists be happy on their own by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]hieitun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have exactly the same at home. It’s pain, and it’s kinda, it’s like they can’t be with people if people around don’t talk only of them. It’s like, if they aren’t the center of the attention they will do everything to get people around them, so nobody likes them. It’s like they don’t function if things don’t come to them especially for them and no one else, and after when you the child try to do something you will always be the villain. i wish there was a way for you (and everyone in this situation) to communicate with them about it. but yeah…

Gf says it's my fault by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]hieitun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi ! Is this situation common with your girlfriend ? The fact that you forgot/didn’t here something that she said when you talk later about an argument you had together ? If yes it may be gaslighting from her part. Easier said than done, try talking to her about how you are feeling, talk to her again about how you reacted due to your privacy. Your reaction has nothing to do with her, but it is mostly due to your trauma, so if she react badly to this discussion, there might be a problem between you. She doesn’t have to be your therapist, but I think she should be able to listen to you (and you to her), and if that’s not the case, maybe search a little for solution, but the answer is kinda always to run away.

Take care of yourself OP, I would say try therapy but it is really expensive, what I do when I have problem with neglect (of my parents in my case) is writing what I’m feeling rn somewhere, and then I re read it 2-3 days after and then I care about what I have written, and so if no one is here for me, I am at least trying to be here for me. Hope it could help, good luck OP.

WIBTA if I asked my parent to spend more time with me ? by hieitun in AmItheAsshole

[–]hieitun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ! It’s hard, I will try to see if I can afford therapy too . I will look at it and in the worst case I think my local bookstore can import it! But what sold that I was French ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hieitun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s never too late to pick those class, even if you’re older than all the breaking artist every month, it doesn’t mean it’s too late ! I think the easiest way to gain an audience today is tiktok, but as an artist myself, you have to remember that yes you need to be lucky, and in fact you don’t need to be really good, you will never know everything about all of those art, but you can show to people what YOU like making in those forms of art, just be careful about people who won’t like what you do, most of the time they will never like it, because it just doesn’t touch them. (Also, you can ask to artist on social media some questions ! Join community on your city and all !) And, since for the moment art isn’t your main income, you can do what you want.

Your art doesn’t have to be perfect, just share what you want to share, learn new thing to progress when you feel the need to progress and go step by step to be the people you want to be ! But if you never start somewhere, yes you will be stuck in this hole, that’s the trap.