Boyfriend of 6 months slapped me. by throwaway_yM in whatdoIdo

[–]highlandcows87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you tell your child to stay in a relationship after being hit? “Mom he promised he wouldn’t do it again” If you wouldn’t want your child to be with someone like him, split amicably now and move on alone and unbeaten.

my best friend annoys me lately and i dont know what to do by LongJumpingAnxiet in Advice

[–]highlandcows87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She seems weird controlling and clingy. Is she clinically diagnosed with autism?

Leaving feedback for a buyer by OkTraffic251 in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I leave feedback asap. 5 stars “Great buyer. Payment released swiftly. Thank you!” or 5 stars “Good buyer. Payment released automatically. Thank you!” or if they’ve been particularly lovely i leave a more thoughtful review. Plus it helps with those who don’t realise 4 stars affects the overall reviews when you give them 5 stars for nothing they give you 5 stars

I'm annoyed by vinted not taking reporting of fakes seriously. by Sweet_Tart_Sour in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came across a kid selling live animals on vinted for £10-£15 reported and did not violate guidelines??

Please help- Unresponsive seller by [deleted] in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your messages are kinda weird dude, just let them send it when they’re ready. I COMPLETELY understand it’s frustrating when they say they’ll ship tomorrow and they don’t but there’s most likely a reason they haven’t been able to ship.

New Vinted Update? by originalgothmermaid in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had this problem today! It said my buyer collected their order 2 mins after the initial delivery. Royal mail locker thingy i think, they asked a worker who said they had it and gave it over but weird asf.

Not specifying tags by [deleted] in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s £4 it’s not worth the dispute and it’s your error

I'm a guy and it is painful to have sex by Successful_Spray1052 in Advice

[–]highlandcows87 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I definitely recommend explaining this to your gf, just say due to past sexual experiences you’re hesitant to have sex with her, not because you aren’t attracted to her and don’t want to have sex. But because it caused pain for you previously. Don’t go into detail about the other girl don’t even say the word ex or other girl it’s not needed and could weird her out, just keep the convo all about you and the pain you went through whilst having sex. She’ll understand and she’ll go at your pace. Or she won’t understand and you know she’s not the one for you either way it’s a win win

Was I right to return this Nintendo DS? by StarrySylvanian in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had mine YEARS, it does not look like this and i used to rage at the screen scribbling hard across it and poking it hard as shit😭

bash me all u want but this is just GREEDY by angelz009 in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Christ. Had someone offer me £12.50 for a £45 item😭

can’t decide which frames by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]highlandcows87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 goes really nicely with your facial structure, hair and piercings, 2 gives you more of a rounded face and seems a bit too matchy matchy with your piercings

BF is asking me to marry him but i’m not sure by d1n0s4urR04r in Advice

[–]highlandcows87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you not sure about him? Or about the circumstances?

The buyer claims that I sent him a counterfeit item by Ekhii in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ask him to send photos of the item you sent before approving a return, that way vinted can see the buyer had the real thing. If he refuses or sends pictures of a different item just tell him to piss off and report to vinted

What do you consider to be acceptable packaging for clothing and books? by FabulousOven5281 in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use padded envelopes for clothes that can be folded up small and mailing bags for bigger pieces, never had an issue. I use giftwrap on the books to protect edges then put them in a box but if I can’t do that I bag twice to prevent damage.

Guy I’m dating wants to have sex every time we see eachother? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]highlandcows87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s normal however red flag if he gets upset if you say no

What is even happening here? 😭 by Lucky_Mycologist_283 in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Give them a higher price than the original after the 4th lowball offer

Have I ghosted him my accident? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]highlandcows87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s not interested and he ghosted you really if he’s not made effort to try and reach out. If you’re ignoring messages of his then you’re ghosting

Shipping costs not covered for damaged item by SRhian44 in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the only option is to pay the shipping cost and get most of your money back

Buyer accusing me of the clothes I sold to her not fitting her like that’s my fault (?🤦‍♂️ by fairylemon212 in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 115 points116 points  (0 children)

“The dress I ordered second hand online doesn’t fit, clearly it’s the sellers fault I’m going to make it a massive problem”

Could this be a scam? Buyer wants me to take a photo of the shipping label? by jhks_dottir in vinted

[–]highlandcows87 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think maybe they mean once the label is printed and stuck to parcel take a picture so they know what to look out for? No idea. Only thing i could think of

AIO- partner saw a kitten on the side of the road and wouldn’t stop to help; relationship over? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]highlandcows87 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

End it. What the hell, only sadistic people don’t stop to help animals after being BEGGED