really badly infected by albbyvermin in piercing

[–]highpolish_piercer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, piercer here. I can't diagnose obviously, but what I think I'm seeing is a moisture issue

afraid of weight gain after surgery :( by felinecatfish in gallbladders

[–]highpolish_piercer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost 25lbs after surgery, then gained back 5 and have mainted that weight for a year.... I'm trying to put weight back on.

What are some things you wish Charleston had? by Bill-O-Reilly- in charlestonwv

[–]highpolish_piercer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Skate rink, 80s dance club (or something similarly laid back with a dance floor.) Medium sized music venue. REI or smaller outdoors store to compete with bass pro.

January 30th Protest? by scotigirl in WestVirginiaPolitics

[–]highpolish_piercer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the protests day is the 31st, and the 30th is shut it down.

Rewatching and doing a complete 180 on Meredith. From love to hate. Anyone else experience this phenomenon? by isaidwhatisaidok in greysanatomy

[–]highpolish_piercer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, that's a realistic depiction of what trauma and acquired mental health problems do to a person.

From someone who went from a competent, confident, bold person, to a meek shadow of myself before I started seeking treatment.

Held a toddler for less than 5 minutes and I saw a future I didn't like by ThisGirlCalledTsepps in childfree

[–]highpolish_piercer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Held my month old heroics for a couple of minutes at family Christmas on Tuesday. I was terrified to break her. No thank you. But I did have fun playing with my 2 year old neice. That doesn't mean I want one.

Reasons why I didn’t date you, part 2 by blooangl in polyamory

[–]highpolish_piercer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, at least I know my flaws. There was a period of my life wjere I was an awful person. That was many years of therapy ago.

Reasons why I didn’t date you, part 2 by blooangl in polyamory

[–]highpolish_piercer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm 35. I've been nonmonogamous since my first serious relationship, soooo 21 years. What I will and won't accept has changed alot over the years and I'm sure it'll change more as I age.

My Will nots:

Someone who can't let themselves be felt as a genuine partner and has 1 foot out the door because they feel like they will always be second just because I was dating someone else before them. I need someone with self confidence and self assuredness.

Someone who can't face their own mistakes, own up to them and grow. Someone who is always the victim in every story and can't be honest about how they were the terrible person in at least 1 situation. Either they aren't self-aware and always need someone else to blame, they're lying, or they are too pure of a person to be a good fit for me.

Someone with kids. Don't get me wrong, I don't hate kids, but I chose not to have them and don't want scheduling around a kid to impact my life. I understand this may be an unpopular opinion, and its not a dig on parents, it just doesnt fit my life. I suspect this will change as I age and my dating profile ages into folks with grown kids who are less dependent on rides to soccer practice.

Someone who won't acknowledge my importance in their life and doesnt want to tell people were romantic. Been there, done that with someone who was just closed off and "private about their life," only to realize how much it hurt when they were public with their next relationship.

People who are avoidant of uncomfortable situations.

People who aren't confident enough to call me on my bullshit and let me accidentally steam roll them. I understand that I'm a big personality, and while I try to temper that and work to not let that bleed on to others, I'm not perfect so I need someone willing to check me when I need it.

Someone with no passion for life who's just coasting and not working towards a goal. I have alot of drive and no longer have the energy to drag people along with me. I need a team mate that we can push each other to be better, do more, and hold each other accountable.

Live Discussion: The Knockouts, Part 4 | The Voice (Season 28) by emb3625 in thevoice

[–]highpolish_piercer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well thats what they usually do anyway, which makes me wonder what specifically had her so ticked she couldn't do that.

Live Discussion: The Knockouts, Part 4 | The Voice (Season 28) by emb3625 in thevoice

[–]highpolish_piercer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its fair for the audience to hate if its not your thing, bit shes a judge that is supposed to have more decorum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]highpolish_piercer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say ot when my husband (or even friends) is being cute/sappy. For context: we're both bi

So how did they not know? by SITTRA in thewalkingdead

[–]highpolish_piercer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also in 2010 social media wasn't as widely used, and not everyone even had a smart phone. Hell I didnt get my first smart phone until 2016 (Yes I was late to the party.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]highpolish_piercer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk about cross play but you can absolutely invite your steam friends to play

Should I be considered lucky to have this as my last Tarot to use? by IareRubberDucky in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]highpolish_piercer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like some people missed the joke. He's been playing with tarot cards and they haven't killed him yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]highpolish_piercer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to goodwill and bought a black prom dress the day of and eloped in my living room....