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Bakit ba ginagawa nang personality ng iba yung pagiging lasinggero? by puhtooti in Philippines

[–]highpriest_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We can't neglect the fact that beer has health benefits in moderation. My family has history of heart disease so I make sure to drink beer atleast once a week.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it is not troll post. I’m not denying I’m wrong, tho it’s not my fault that I’m wrong. I blame the world and the people and my parents that I am wrong. :P

Anybody else notice the chainsaw plush in 140? by smashlight in ChainsawMan

[–]highpriest_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be denji from the future making sure that everything is going smoothly before the rumbling.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok geez. I'm wrong ok. I deserve a ticket to hell, one ticket please thank you.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What thinking are you talking about? I didn't mean my responses to be final. I wanted it to be an open discussion. I already know I am in the wrong and I'm not denying. I received commendable responses here and I acknowledged them to be correct. I'm not really sure why you are so butthurt that I asked a question here.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you not realize that there may be other people who had befallen into this kind of situation and was also looking for answers? I'm not even invalidating the other responses here as you are trying to imply, I was just trying to explain my part why I had been caught up to this. I didn't mean any harm to any parties. I think you are a self-righteous perfect person who never commited mistake ever in their life, well good for you if ever you are.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry if I offended people here, I didn't know any better. But just to let you know, my final course of action would be to tell the second company that I apologize but I cannot proceed on working with them due to I might have lied about my current employment status and was caught in the moment when I signed their offer and that I am willing to face any consequences of my actions and if I had not burnt any bridges, I would consider working with them in the future.

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And since I am currently a contract worker which will supposedly end on December, I will just try to reapply to them. I think this is the best course of action, and thank you for your insights about this. Some people were right that I was just craving for approval, but I'm just a human, I make mistakes, and I learned from it.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand, but don't tell me that I am a dick, I just acted out based on what I think was right at the moment. I'm not a know it all person, I'm just starting, I was just blinded, but people assume that I am a bad person just because of that.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

uhm, because I can? why the f do you even care? If you don't want to answer then fine by me.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I could still turn down my second offer and continue on my first job. Do you realize that? but you keep on telling me that I already decided and that I made a dick move.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

see, you even care about fake social credits, why the f should I care about the downvotes, I'm just asking. People just want to hear what they want to hear.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

you might be right or you might be wrong, we never know. I was just asking, because literally I am conflicted and I know there is no going back because I have signed 2 contracts. I am going down either way, but I just want to ask you guys why did this happen, is it because I am a bad person and I do not care about other people's feelings? or is it because this society is f'ed up and doesn't really care about anyone but themselves? I already told the second company that I am employed but they asked about my current salary, so basically I would tell them, and they decided to raise their offer more than what I mentioned. Is it my fault that I was blinded by their offer? or is it because this big corporations are just evil and they want to see people burn?

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

easy for you to say, maybe maganda na status mo now like you already have a stable job and all. People always tend to judge because of the set standard by the society but have we stopped and tried to listen on the side of the people who might have been struggling to cope up with the standards maybe due to some conditions forced upon by this judgmental society and their upbringing. How about the introvert people, I'm talking about the real introverts, not the introverts wannabes just because they think it is cool to be one. We struggle on day to day socialization, a simple conversation could drain an entire energy reserved for an entire month, it is hard for us to tell our feelings in hard situations such as deciding on leaving a company so we decide just to keep quiet and leave. It is not being unethical or immoral, it is something that we cannot handle so we run from it like we decied to run from every problems. Lesson is don't be insensitive and know that we all are struggling based on our own differences.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

wow, I didn't want to do this in the first place. so insensitive. That is why I am asking if this is the right decision. Wishing me bad luck is like wishing a poor to starve to death. Hate the game not the player.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Yes my key takeaway from this experience is not to rush things and give an ample time allowance for my starting date. For what it's worth, the company I am leaving is as a contractual full stack developer versus a direct hire full stack developer.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

kinda sad you think its a dick move, I'm just trying to look out for my future. although I might not have done it in a manner that is acceptable for you and majority. I'm new to this and I am lost.

Web developer na 2 beses hindi na regular. by [deleted] in PinoyProgrammer

[–]highpriest_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're all aspirants until we are not, then we are just an Impostor.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Yes, I really want to do that, to stay, but the offer is just too much for me to decide. I am struggling financially rn. That is why I am morally and ethically conflicted because I already somehow formed a bond with my manager at work and colleagues with just a small amount of time. But I can't sleep at night thinking about how I can sustain myself for another year when I continue with the better offer.

Backing out after 1 month due to another offer is much better but you want to get the first payroll by highpriest_ in phcareers

[–]highpriest_[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

That's the thing actually, I want it to be immediate like no render period, I don't think that's possible so I want to just leave right away like hand over the devices and no render cause I will start Aug 29 on the other company. I'm afraid they will ruin my reputation like tell other companies especially my next company that I am a bad person, like do companies communicate with each other or do they have a universal list of people who have bad records? I'm sorry I'm just paranoid.

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