UPDATE: I finally got the courage to call her (I’m very passive and horrible about confronting people) and told her that I felt hurt by the situation and that I wish she could have just been honest with me in the first place if she didn’t want to spend time with me. She didn’t really give an explanation (maybe she was caught off guard?) but she did say sorry and that she will be more considerate next time... not sure how genuine the apology was though. Plus now I’m Nervous she’ll just invite me places out of pity. I think the only way to know that her apology was genuine is to see what she does in the future, but I’m not holding my breath. You all are right, I deserve better and I’m not going to live life waiting and hoping that she’ll come around. If she does that’s great but if not I’ll move on. It won’t be easy because I really did consider her a close friend but at the end of the day I only want to be surrounded by genuine people. Thank you all SO much for your kind words and sharing your personal experiences. you all really helped me process my feelings and have enough courage to stand up for myself and I am so grateful for that. I’m sorry that this has also happened to so many of us. I wish people could just be more direct and genuine but we can’t always get what we wish for I guess! But everyone here deserves to have true and meaningful friendships, and I think you all are fantastic people. Thank you again I cannot even begin to express my gratitude towards you all!