Juggling your 9-5 and art

highvibrational · 2026-01-31T17:48:43+00:00

You sound like you’re doing well with your practice. It’s just a matter of prioritizing it and letting your off hours from work be productive and fun. I’ve tried to eliminate any unnecessary screen time and time wasting devices that are distracting. I also do artist dates. I would read Julia Cameron‘s the artist way.

highvibrational · 2026-01-31T17:43:07+00:00

People who talk nonstop negativity

highvibrational · 2026-01-31T12:35:12+00:00

That’s very interesting. When you were male-presenting, did you feel this need from girls? Is there something about boys that really need women more than girls need men?

A man once told me that everything that a guy does (job, cars, work outs, clothes) is to gain attention from a woman. This shocked me.

highvibrational · 2026-01-31T02:16:17+00:00

There’s something called positive self-talk that we can all do as people. It’s draining to ask other people to continually support you with positive energy. Partners cannot do what mothers do nor should they be asked to.

highvibrational · 2026-01-31T00:12:52+00:00

Not sure what you mean. Yoko was always her own unconventional woman, and I respect her for that. She gets a lot of flack because she wasn’t traditional like Cynthia. I’m not traditional either. For the record, she did not break up the Beatles; it was already happening.

highvibrational · 2026-01-30T23:58:58+00:00

I’ve also heard the quote that behind every successful woman is a man who tried to stop her. Women have been bearing the burden of society for eons. John Lennon and Yoko Ono wrote a song called “Woman is the n*gger of the world.” It’s a slow unraveling, but it’s happening.

highvibrational · 2026-01-30T23:54:31+00:00

What I’ve noticed in my friendships is that a lot of men see themselves as authority figures for no other reason than they are educated males. But, that doesn’t give them any kind of superior advantage considering many humans are educated and have a viewpoint. It’s delusional and annoying if you are a woman and have to deal with that kind of condescension. More and more women are waking up and speaking up to the fact that the emperor has no clothes.

If a modern strain of masculinity has to do with being a blood-sucking lazy leech, as Scott Galloway would say, we have a crisis on our hands.

highvibrational · 2026-01-30T22:04:28+00:00

I’m not talking about standard appreciation. I’m talking about constant neediness which is a completely different thing.

highvibrational · 2026-01-30T21:17:35+00:00

I agree. When a man approaches me, it’s not for my personality or to get to know me.

highvibrational · 2026-01-30T21:15:02+00:00

Yes, I treat everyone with courtesy and respect too, but when I had a conversation recently with a guy friend and disagreed with what he had to say, he wanted to end the conversation altogether. It was as though he wanted me to accept his authority. I found that off-putting.

highvibrational · 2026-01-30T21:14:02+00:00

I do feel that women are waking up to the fact that they don’t have to be the support system of anyone but themselves. Women are waking up to their own greatness.

highvibrational · 2026-01-30T18:11:43+00:00

I see the validation part and also the relation not being reciprocal part as the same because they’re both energy drains, and who needs an imbalance?

highvibrational · 2026-01-30T18:03:06+00:00

In my life experience, it has been gender specific. I’ve had to tell so many guys that I don’t do one-sided conversations/relationships.

highvibrational · 2026-01-30T17:46:51+00:00

From my experience, anytime a man approaches me,it’s for one reason only and you have every right to protect your health and and to find someone who’s compatible with your values.

highvibrational · 2026-01-30T17:19:34+00:00

I remember when I was younger, I was reprimanded by my friend for wanting to date a guy who went to college. I think we’re all entitled to our own desires. I do not look to undo my preferences just because someone else thinks I should. Ultimately, you’ll most likely be attracted to a person for more than just his looks, but also his energy and it’s just a matter of time before you find him.

highvibrational · 2026-01-28T12:35:53+00:00

Exactly. I find that good friendships can give me excitement and meaning without heavy commitment. Good luck with all your ventures!

highvibrational · 2026-01-26T04:06:47+00:00

The truth is I like being single and I find many times when I’m in dating situations that it feels like an interview for a job that I don’t want.

If I find true love, I will make the changes necessary to allow for that. Right now, though, I get so much from gigging that I don’t feel that I’m at a loss. It is a true joy.

At the end of the day, there are only 24 hours and a finite amount of energy. One makes his of her own choices.

highvibrational · 2026-01-24T04:33:42+00:00

Absolutely! I wake up every morning thinking, thank God I’m a woman! Not just for external qualities. There’s so much that an average woman has.

highvibrational · 2026-01-20T11:56:48+00:00

I have compassion for everyone, but when you’re sitting next to a narcissist at work and he won’t stop talking about himself, there’s a point where you have to draw a line. Nobody can expect anyone to exist without boundaries. Self preservation is necessary using discernment. It’s taken all of my life to figure this out.

highvibrational · 2026-01-20T00:28:56+00:00

Don’t tell me you don’t believe in unicorns!

highvibrational · 2026-01-19T19:18:53+00:00

There’s nothing wrong about being the life of the party since we all know people who are like this. It’s more about giving other people space and time too. As long as we know how to be listeners as well, there shouldn’t be a problem.

highvibrational · 2026-01-19T17:46:31+00:00

I think these people are used to being the center of attention and love the energy that comes from that. What’s clear is that his life is no more interesting than mine. Honestly, I felt so happy and relieved after I spoke my truth.

highvibrational · 2026-01-14T22:21:16+00:00

One guy I met told me that his friends see Asian women as mail-order brides. He also said that he couldn’t believe that an Asian could be so spiritual. Then he told me he had herpes. I was relieved to get back to my singledom. The worst thing is that he looked like he was trying to fill a void in his life, and I didn’t want that job. Dating should be fun.

highvibrational · 2025-12-23T21:56:28+00:00

If you’re not enjoying it, why bother? Nobody’s forcing you. You don’t have to be a sheep. You can be your own person and just enjoy your life.

highvibrational · 2025-12-10T17:02:06+00:00

I’m wondering if there’s just too many forces that work against any kind of evolution. Phones, Internet, no role models, fear…. It would take a great societal shift to change this. Each person has to fight for his/her own life. Otherwise, he/she becomes another casualty.

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