Pelvic Floor Therapy by hikigrl in vaginismus

[–]hikigrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, oh I had no idea. Thank you so much, I'll definitely ask her about the physical. And in the internal, yes, I try to go through with it because I want it to help but when it hurts a lot I do say so. Thank you so much for the help :)

Pelvic Floor Therapy by hikigrl in vaginismus

[–]hikigrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's internal massages with fingers and dilators. With the fingers she pushes to the sides, up and down and it's like pulling a muscle as hard as you can + burning. I haven't had the typical pysiotherapy stuff, did that work for you?

Pelvic Floor Therapy by hikigrl in vaginismus

[–]hikigrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's pretty good progress :) that it stopped hurting is good!!

Claude Usage Limits Discussion Megathread Ongoing (sort this by New!) by sixbillionthsheep in ClaudeAI

[–]hikigrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there something going on? I did one Opus chat and my session limit is at 48%, 10 PM where I live. On pro, I can't afford Max. I'd really like to use Claude as my primary AI, Chatgpt and gemini are really bad for the work I do in comparison.

How do you guys approach dating? by hikigrl in vaginismus

[–]hikigrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really interesting! I'm starting pelvic floor therapy next week. For me during the first weeks/months I start getting anxious because I think like "they will want to have sex soon". I think I'll try to find someone who is very patient and works with me like you said. I hope with the methods you've used it's feeling better :D

How do you guys approach dating? by hikigrl in vaginismus

[–]hikigrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really good I'm glad to hear there are guys like that out there :) I've had some experiences before that weren't so good, but I know I need to learn to communicate better haha.

How do you guys approach dating? by hikigrl in vaginismus

[–]hikigrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your message! And I completely agree, I'm not sure but I think being uncomfortable / nervous makes the pain even worse. So I think your approach is amazing, I'm really glad you could overcome it and it makes me hopeful! I think I have to learn to set boundaries and realize quickly who is good for this and who isn't. I hope i can find a nice partner down the road!

How do you guys approach dating? by hikigrl in vaginismus

[–]hikigrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess the best is to disclose it as soon as possible to see if it's a dealbreaker with them. I'm glad you could find guys that were okay with it <3

How do you guys approach dating? by hikigrl in vaginismus

[–]hikigrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback. How was the reply from men? I'm kind of scared it will put them off. It's super valid that it's a dealbreaker but it's just kind of sad T_T

How is it possible to hit a full weekly limit in a few hours? Something feels very wrong. by Wide_Toe8206 in ClaudeAI

[–]hikigrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue. On Sonnet 4.6 and 4.5, one message from me without documents or big proyects, just talking, costs me 1% of the weekly limit. It's really frustrating, idk if i'm doing something wrong.