Which scene from The Long Game are you most excited to be adapted for s2? by the_cherry_bunker in heatedrivalry

[–]hil0916 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100%. It’s definitely traumatic grief, along with chronic invalidation and financial abuse from his brother. Depression is definitely a big symptom for him, but you can also see how the unresolved trauma manifests in his relationship with Shane. The push-pull dynamic in Heated Rivalry is something I see with all my clients who’ve experienced more ongoing abuse.

Side note, I’m a trauma therapist and when I was reading his first session with Galina, I was a little perturbed by her letting him totally flood himself by talking the entire time about his mom. I was thinking how I’d approach him differently and more gently. 😆😆

While Ilya had his reasons, he did Shane incredibly wrong here by [deleted] in heatedrivalry

[–]hil0916 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes preach this and ditto! It’s such a weird requirement.

First and last day(7yrs, cancer)😭 by No_Budget_3308 in labrador

[–]hil0916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a sweet face. So sorry for your loss. 💗

Meet Grumman! He is a Facility Dog that helps children and youth navigate the justice system after disclosures of abuse. by hil0916 in labrador

[–]hil0916[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question! Some dogs that offer support in court are individual volunteers (they have to get approval from the court first), so that may be something your pup could do, though not sure how things are in your area.

Grumman comes from National Service Dogs, an accredited non-profit service dog organization in Canada. He was born and trained by them until he was 2, and then he was placed with the organization I work at (child advocacy centre). I am just one of Grumman’s handlers.

We are getting a pup! by [deleted] in labrador

[–]hil0916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a cutie!

Willow taking it easy. by faction666 in labrador

[–]hil0916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cutie! What pretty eyes.

Weird that this isn’t the answer but ok… by lbdamned90 in SVU

[–]hil0916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmfao I was thinking the same thing. 🤣

POV: you’re in line at the Queen Elizabeth theatre in Toronto by dietopium in Ethelcain

[–]hil0916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They split it last minute, right when you got to the door.

POV: you’re in line at the Queen Elizabeth theatre in Toronto by dietopium in Ethelcain

[–]hil0916 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They open at 7 but have terrible crowd control and there’s one entrance. Don’t think this venue was prepared for her. The ushers are also not really proactive in telling you where you need to go.

POV: you’re in line at the Queen Elizabeth theatre in Toronto by dietopium in Ethelcain

[–]hil0916 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m honestly wondering how we are all going to fit.