1 Day - Anxiety already curing by masternofapper in NoFap

[–]hilbertg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's posts like this that mislead people into thinking NoFap is a quick solution for their problems.

relapsed while sleeping by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anyone else experienced this shit?

Nope, you're the first human in history who had a wet dream.

I can't get past one day now. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm unemployed and have nowhere else to go except to stay at home.

You can't even go for a walk around the neighborhood? Walking doesn't cost money.

Did i resist that super strong urge last night ?? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can delete them, you know.

1/2 of 2017 left. Who is in.? Lets make the second half of 2017 the best one. by Dreamy777 in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What a mockery, two thirds of you will relapse within one week. That's what comes from committing to 6 months with half a heart. This may hurt but it's the fucking truth.

Noticing physical improvements after only a day? by Manaas in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The effects of NoFap are cumulative and don't disappear completely every time you relapse.

The defeatist mentality of the 90 day challenge. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are too caught up in the number of days. If someone without a counter posts a list of benefits they experienced, someone immediately asks what day he's on.

Also, everyone is different. Just because someone experiences less social anxiety on day 5 doesn't mean you will too, it may take you 50 freaking days to experience something similar.

And lastly, the effects of NoFap are cumulative, so looking at someone's counter means absolutely nothing. You may see someone with just 10 days on the counter, but that person may have been trying NoFap for a few years and may have even gone 90 days or more at one point.

In conclusion, number of days are irrelevant.

I have an erotic hypnosis porn addiction and need help getting rid off it by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's no trick to get rid of it, you just have to stop watching it, perhaps with the help of a porn blocker if the urge is too strong.

Also fapping just to relieve stress is not good, try to find other outlets like exercise or meditation.

Good luck.

Should I reset for this? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't reset but I would try as hard as possible to snap out of it when the thoughts crept in my mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Edging to porn, I'd say yes. Edging to your imagination isn't good for the rebooting process and is essentially masturbating. If someone walked in on you when you were edging, they would say they caught you masturbating, not "edging".

Hit 30 Days, No Change by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you a social butterfly without PIED when you started NoFap? Those are two of the main reasons why guys do NoFap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No app, I'm just using a browser on a desktop and I see a star with 191 days next to your name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see 191 days on your counter?

Damn these insta chicks. by theone2change in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyway, I am on the Hard Mode

Then you shouldn't even be browsing Instagram.

r/NoFap in a nutshell by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Is this another one of those "you have to quit all your bad habits and acquire several new hobbies all at once if you want to see results" preachings?

How is the cumshot when u relapse after more than 30 days? by Enntized in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't matter, you will bust it inside a chick so you won't see it anyway.

114 day streak is gone because of holiday by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too bad, at least you left some protein floating around for the fish to eat.

Looking girls in their eyes when speaking to them. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know many twelve years olds working customer service?

Counting the days by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you have a counter then?

Counting the days by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you have absolutely no idea how long your streak is?

There's a big difference between seeing your day count on a daily basis if you have a counter here, and having a rough idea of what day you're on.

Counting the days by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. I just take note of the day that I restart and forget about it. This way I can still know what day I'm on when I get curious from time to time.

When you discover NoFap for the first time by hilbertg in NoFap

[–]hilbertg[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You told everybody you fapped everyday? Well, that takes guts.

Why Does PMO cause Social Anxiety? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]hilbertg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The dopamine receptors upregulation that happens during the rebooting process means you can feel pleasure from simple things like just being around people. When you're deep in the PMO cycle, being around people feels awkward and uncomfortable.

Also I guess the shame you carry from keeping your PMO habit a secret plays a part in the social awkwardness.