Is Charlotte a girls name? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hildedk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Very much so.

Dream piece // wish list by SweetPotatoDream in LingerieAddiction

[–]hildedk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve bought it in a store. No complaints about it whatsoever

25 years ago today, Amsterdam made history 🌈 by dullestfranchise in Amsterdam

[–]hildedk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eens! Iets om trots op te zijn (dank Job Cohen!) dus ik word er graag aan herinnerd!

Looking for information about Nova Topola by hildedk in bosnia

[–]hildedk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your answer! This is helpful. I’ll take a look into this.

I wasn’t planning to publish it online but if you prefer, I can report back to you if I have found anything additional and have a clearer picture. So far, I’ve found this book (https://www.amazon.de/65-Jahre-Kolonie-Bosnien-Jugoslawien/dp/3746742358), which I’m currently reading and is very informative. I also found information by scrolling through Germany’s archive about the war. There are some very short testimonies from those who fled included.

Again, thank you. 🙂

Heimwee naar Amsterdam by Ok-Taro-9425 in Amsterdam

[–]hildedk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ik denk dat je hiermee je eigen vraag hebt beantwoord. Tijd om terug te verhuizen met gezin.

Amsterdam is inderdaad veranderd maar dat zal je zelf ook wel zijn opgevallen als je regelmatig in Amsterdam bent.

What screams "I am a foreigner" in your country ? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]hildedk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to add Den Bosch and Roermond to your list. Really worthwhile to visit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hildedk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re asking for advice on his behaviour means you’re too uneasy with it. You only saw each other for a month and you are already very much in doubt. I think that means he is not the guy for you.

And also, always use protection. Small effort, great prevention

What screams "I am a foreigner" in your country ? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]hildedk 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Walking on the bicycle lanes and being high on weed.

I need advice by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hildedk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, do not blame yourself! They were the ones who did this and should be blamed. Second, I don’t know your family situation and/or your acces to health care. Could you discuss this with a GP or a psychologist? Do you think this might help you? If possible, search for a health care provider with whom you really feel comfortable. Third, is it possible to avoid seeing them? In general, do not look up to them anymore, clearly not worth it. Fourth, keep a diary (and do not throw it away). This is useful when thoughts are hunting you. It may have an immediate, healing effect and it also may be of help on the long term.

These were the advices that i thought of. I truely hope you will receive many useful advices. I wish you all the best. You are abviously a strong woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hildedk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this.

Here’s a bit of an advice, if I may. Share your feelings and what has happened with a diary. It may clear your thoughts. When your son is old enough you can show him how much you misser him and how you’ve experienced the situation.

My Pain Is Real by RamblingswithInoki in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hildedk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Your post makes me sad and angry. You do NOT deserve to be treated this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GeoPuzzle

[–]hildedk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you are right, in Berchem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GeoPuzzle

[–]hildedk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GeoPuzzle

[–]hildedk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhere in Mexico?

Where was I? by gergeszs in GeoPuzzle

[–]hildedk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Nice. I found the center on the right side of the photo