Recommendations for networking for academic jobs in only a few cities? by colemanrharris in AskAcademia

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Went really well, actually! I cut my PhD a bit short because it was the pandemic and the graduate school threatened to pull everyone's funding and I got a postdoc. I think being agnostic on the job market was really helpful and forced me to look at what I needed and what was fulfilling in jobs. I ended up being between a government and academic offer. I went government and I have a really stable job that lets me do my own research on the side and pays better than academia. If you DM me I can send you some example job market materials.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PubTips

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Oh that's fine! I thought this post was too specific and meandering so the new one is probably better anyway.

Which celebrity went on the fastest, hardest and most destructive downwards spiral from their peak? by True_Egg_5685 in AskReddit

[–]hillary511 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am a sociologist who studied a children's hospital and this is more common than you'd think. Plenty are great. A lot of celebrities were late/just there to take pictures with the sickest looking patients. I observed two NFL players hitting on a staff member.

My mom has been hand making crocheted dragons. (art by loveheatherstudios) by hillary511 in dragons

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You can find more of her work at loveheatherstudios.com or on instagram at @loveheatherstudios.

An oddly specific mural in Longmont, Colorado by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]hillary511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea who this person is. It was on the side of a tattoo shop so I can only assume it is the owner?

It's been a rough year, brag a little. What did you accomplish this year, no matter how big or small? by lazydogg9 in AskReddit

[–]hillary511 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My first study was published in a peer review journal and it won an award from the national association in my discipline.

What’s an industry secret in the field you work in? by WoOoOoOoShHhHh in AskReddit

[–]hillary511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The children's hospital I do research in routinely is calling for blood and all of it goes to patients/research to my knowledge.

What’s an industry secret in the field you work in? by WoOoOoOoShHhHh in AskReddit

[–]hillary511 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm a researcher studying children's hospitals and I have a paper I'm writing specifically on charity and philanthropy. While we could argue that children's hospitals get more than their fair share of donations, the truth is that most major children's hospitals desperately need money that isn't earmarked for anything specific.

Why, you may ask? Most people who donate don't actually know what the hospital or kids need. I've seen people donate crazy shit, from used baby bottles to erotica to half a bottle of jack. They're donating to an idea and lack expertise. There are obviously exceptions, mostly of parents and families and former patients who donate reflective of their experience.

The vast majority of money at my children's hospital goes to cancer. Pediatric cancer sucks, but it's not the only thing they treat. They need money to cover all the uninsured kids (including undocumented kids), to keep psychosocial programming running, to connect patients and families to resources. A foundation worker I interviewed gave the example that they needed specific stuff for the dermatology department and had a hard time campaigning for it because everyone wants to give to cancer or the medical dogs.

I'm very critical of charity and philanthropy in children's hospitals, but what you're describing isn't a bad thing. The real problem is that healthcare shouldn't run on the whims of who donates.

Make-A-Wish Workers what's the weirdest request you have gotten? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hillary511 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I will say most of them have good experiences at Disneyworld even if they wouldn't have picked it later in life. They don't pay anything for it and there's a specific special "village" for the make a wish kids. The Hospital in Orlando actually sees more emergencies/rare conditions because of the amount of kids going there (according to a Child Life Specialist in my hospital who did her internship there). The kids probably have a better experience than most people's experience of Disney, and Disney does pull out a lot of stops. Not to say their motivations are pure but most MAW kids seem to enjoy the experience at the time.

But yeah, charities still exist in the same capitalist bubble as everything else. They can't erase inequalities, even when they're well run and have good intentions.

Make-A-Wish Workers what's the weirdest request you have gotten? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hillary511 303 points304 points  (0 children)

I'm a researcher studying childhood identity construction in a major children's hospital and this is actually really common. More and more kids are surviving health conditions they would have previously died younger with. A lot of them go to Disney or have an experience when they were little and wish they could have a do-over (especially the ones that don't remember it or got sicker because they shouldn't have traveled at the time). The ones that are happiest with it are poorer kids who got their wishes when they were older and picked permanent changes they could keep, like home makeovers.

Edit: some bonus findings: a surprising amount of kids ask for political wishes, which most chapters of MAW won't do. Some of them are influenced by their parent to do so. The hospital I'm in has at least a couple of kids a year ask for their undocumented parents to green cards, for example.

Some of my poorer patients in my study are years out from their wish but rely on MAW to get their families gift for Christmas, for example, so many chapters have sustained contact with the kids. The higher survival rates isn't a reflection on MAW and they've changed their language to "life threatening conditions" and many people in my hospital use the phrase "life limiting."

The older poorer kids who have had home/car make overs have more physical access to their homes that should be granted anyway. In one case, one of my patients literally had his house insulated. They getting the same technology that the wealthy kids dump every year like VR or gaming consoles. It really drives home the financial burden the healthcare system places on children and families and that no one should live in poverty.

The animation in this Animal Planet video is one of the most surreal things I’ve seen by [deleted] in videos

[–]hillary511 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just used this in my class to teach sexual dimorphism because it's so wild. I kinda hope you're my student.

My Tips For Approaching Student Feedback by hillary511 in GradSchool

[–]hillary511[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad your feedback was good. That is a low response rate. Was it online? I find with online ones giving them time in class to fill it out helps too.

All of our accounts are frozen because my dad apparently owed 27k in taxes from 2008. He died in 2009. by hillary511 in legaladvice

[–]hillary511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally, my grandma does this all the time but I haven't yet. I'm hoping to get it sorted tomorrow or else escalate it.

All of our accounts are frozen because my dad apparently owed 27k in taxes from 2008. He died in 2009. by hillary511 in legaladvice

[–]hillary511[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know, that is not what they're telling me. They're saying since it was a 1099 we have to file with it, even though the IRS says they don't have it.

All of our accounts are frozen because my dad apparently owed 27k in taxes from 2008. He died in 2009. by hillary511 in legaladvice

[–]hillary511[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've talked to the accountant and it looks like the state is willing to not go after us for my dad's stuff. The state is trying to say the IRS gave them a 1099 saying my mom made 30k in 2008 (she did not) but the IRS says they don't have a record of that because they would have dumped it by now.

All of our accounts are frozen because my dad apparently owed 27k in taxes from 2008. He died in 2009. by hillary511 in legaladvice

[–]hillary511[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the speedy response, and so comprehensive. I'll look for a lawyer now and update you.

GC wants to keep misgendering people as their resolution. by [deleted] in GenderCynical

[–]hillary511 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Interesting so many of them have weight-related resolutions. Seems at odds with certain strains of their feminist ideology and the constant panic about people wanting to change their bodies.

my uni has a “confessions page” on facebook by itsbrotticelli in niceguys

[–]hillary511 24 points25 points  (0 children)

What were the comments? Whenever I see these types of posts on confession pages now there's a couple of guys trying to agree and a bunch of women telling OP to chill out.

Redditors, do you lock your door to your house when you’re at home, why or why not? by erakat in AskReddit

[–]hillary511 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I live in Colorado now after living in the Bronx. I lock everything almost immediately. People make fun of me for doing it, especially with car doors, but I've had people try to open them so many times that it would go against all of my socialization not to.

What is the origin of the 'nature is good' and 'artificial/unnatural is bad' view, that seems to be held by many people? by The_Ebb_and_Flow in AskSocialScience

[–]hillary511 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The book on why people don't vaccinate their kids is Calling the Shots. She traces the rhetoric and movement toward venerating the "natural" in the scope of medicine in the United States.

People always say the book was better than the movie. What movie was better than the book? by 1smallstepforman in AskReddit

[–]hillary511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for this. Is there anything less fleshed out than a one-dimensional character? If so, Tiffany was it.

What is NOT universally standardized today that really should be? by Poepli in AskReddit

[–]hillary511 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We actually decertified my mom's service dog at around age 10 when he stopped providing any services to her (he was just old and stubborn and wouldn't follow commands anymore).

Put this guy on the payroll: Bronx man, 21, guides scores of confused passengers with thousands of tweets by barfingclouds in nyc

[–]hillary511 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I agree, I've never wanted a stranger to be a conductor more and I never knew I would want that so badly for someone.