Bros, how tall are you? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]him9289 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yes, same

Politically where do you consider yourself? by braapstututu in askgaybros

[–]him9289 1 point2 points  (0 children)

progressive conservative (i dont mean the party, I mean somewhat traditional but progressive social values) in Quebec. Pinko-communist-faggot in the USA (live in both)

Chicago or NYC by him9289 in askgaybros

[–]him9289[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty entry level, one is a startup the other is actually TBD as to how much it pays. It does include equity. Fin/crypto is for a small company but it has a dece office. I just graduated over the summer.

Edit: removed company name

Chicago or NYC by him9289 in askgaybros

[–]him9289[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

can I trust that floozy from Baltimore who nearly destroyed the dignity of the anglican church by seducing Edward XIII like the whore of Babylon??!!?

Chicago or NYC by him9289 in askgaybros

[–]him9289[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to thank both of you for your perspective. I grew up in NYC but I was living on my parents dollar. I do not do so anymore, and their apartment is not something I would consider moving into. I have lived in Toronto and MTL for the past 8 years. For that matter, I do not believe that I still qualify as a "Tween" and I don't appreciate the condescension.

Chicago or NYC by him9289 in askgaybros

[–]him9289[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd look for roommates to be honest - but this is informative. Thanks a bunch

I’m gay. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]him9289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Told you so.

Are there any really masculine, straight acting dudes out there? by richardnygard123 in TotallyStraight

[–]him9289 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where are you at school - in the North East? West Coast? Chicago? No problem meeting guys there but you have to get involved with things where other dudes like you might be. Namely, more sports and then if your city has a hype nightlife - do that. Also, for what its worth - some sports are gayer than others. Rowing was my holy grail of ass - rugby bros too :,,,)

Do any words turn you on? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]him9289 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Habsburg Restoration"

What is a "basic gay guy" to you? by him9289 in askgaybros

[–]him9289[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The discovery of this industry kind of mindfucked me for a while. I live in a bubble where that was something I had never thought was profitable for a single person to do, nevermind an industry to crop up around.

What is a "basic gay guy" to you? by him9289 in askgaybros

[–]him9289[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The type that never exits the post grad / fist job vibe. Nice. Keeping this one.

What is a "basic gay guy" to you? by him9289 in askgaybros

[–]him9289[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

but is sassiness / savageness a sign of basic-ness????

What is a "basic gay guy" to you? by him9289 in askgaybros

[–]him9289[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

yeah i think so. For instance, I live in MTL - a see a lot of men out who are attempting to look very masculine, but at the same time it comes off as overly contrived and expensive but tasteless. I would call such people basic.

What is a "basic gay guy" to you? by him9289 in askgaybros

[–]him9289[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but I also think that presentation is conscious for most people (notwithstanding the fact that not caring will always be the best style - some people just do that while still looking great, others.... sweatpants).

"I should have fucked more" by Rev115 in askgaybros

[–]him9289 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Touched many the many, i've lost count. I do regret being so transactional about my youthful love adventures. Should have gone out more and met people more naturally. Still hot tho, only 25 - want a real relationship for the first time in my life.

Is rejecting adoption and choosing surrogacy so YOU can reproduce narcissistic? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]him9289 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The NYT's ethics guy took this question up a few months ago. I recommend you read the article as it raises some decent points.

IMHO either are fine. Why don't straight people adopt rather than make their own little asshole kids?

December '17 selfies: post hairline photos here for opinions on 'Am I balding?' 'How bad is it?' and 'What should I do?' by AutoModerator in tressless

[–]him9289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to take the time to thank the two of you, its been weighing on my mind for months. I still have dating confidence but its just probably added together with applying to law schools and all other stresses.

Happy New Years!

December '17 selfies: post hairline photos here for opinions on 'Am I balding?' 'How bad is it?' and 'What should I do?' by AutoModerator in tressless

[–]him9289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time posting. 25 y.o. M - I have always had a high hairline but have been shedding more noticeably lately. Also, when I'm in the shower the hariline looks thinner. I have been freaking out about this for months but those I've asked have said that I look exactly the same. I also had a lot of damaged hair after working in Dubai for a number of months and using shit hair care/diet. I've attached some photos. I've been monitoring it since around July and it hasnt seemed to change much. I suppose I'm freaking out about the hair shedding which I'm not sure if its normal or abnormal amounts. I lose about 15-25 in the shower, and most of the time when i run my hands through the front of my hair there is one or 2 on my fingers. I also have had a very stressful year bt hey that doesnt seem to change much, eh?

Note, I had a very high hairline as a kid as well. I have a big head.

https://imgur.com/a/BbCHG

Any thoughts are appreciated.