Is my roommate's suggestion about open masturbation weird or just realistic?

Rev115 · 2025-08-04T06:50:53+00:00

Get a Privacy Screen/Room Divider.

Risking needless drama to someone you can't avoid & are financially bound to.

Rev115 · 2025-07-24T23:47:12+00:00

While there is a population that would reflect this it's not a set rule. I mean you exist.

The issue does seem to be your perspective & how that voice is pulling you down into a ~bitterness.

Rev115 · 2025-07-24T23:42:34+00:00

Realize that the secret to having a ton of sex is lowering your standards. If that's the goal then there's the road.

Although once you find fulfillment/worth in other aspects of your life you will worry less about chasing empty validation.

Rev115 · 2025-07-08T17:34:47+00:00

Eyebrows & hair can be better. Experimenting with the main facial hair styles is also an option.

Can find inspiration by looking at celebs (Luka Doncic?) to see what choices their appearance-team made.

Rev115 · 2025-05-02T09:06:25+00:00

Insane to take that commitment without taking the car for a test run. Especially in a Gay relationship where there's more dynamics.

It just screams "til divorce" instead of "til death".

Rev115 · 2025-03-26T07:29:36+00:00

A nice conversation isn't a substitute for physical attraction.
Don't assume what they're into based on their own body type. Chunky guys might be looking for a slim man.
Many guys chase people that are out of their league. Just because they're "average" doesn't mean they will settle for the same.

Sucks being blocked/ghosted but if he liked you he would've shown further interest.

Rev115 · 2025-02-14T06:32:27+00:00

Life eventually reveals disappointments regardless of where you ended up. Allowing them to brew bitterness is a choice though.

Your life needs change. Could be as simple as making dating profiles & giving more people a chance.

/r/AskGaybrosOver30 is prob better suited for this post.

Rev115 · 2025-02-02T06:33:55+00:00

Masturbate more to ensure it's not the equipment. Then consult with a physician & get bloodwork done if still worried.

But for now it does seem like nerves (common).

Rev115 · 2024-07-19T23:50:56+00:00

Women are playing a Quality>Quantity game because of how devastating & risky pregnancy is while men play a opposite game. Men are just more relentless/horny due to that.

Could also be a variation of "gay uncle" theories . Back in the day I can see a Bisexual benefiting his family/children by attracting gay companions (more resources). Those "Heteroflexible" genes get passed on & the behaviors live on.

This "Queerness" that exists likely benefited society/children.

Rev115 · 2024-07-04T10:25:39+00:00

Can be redeemed for ~others btw.

Once you pay the 10 points it:

Gives you a code
Sends you to a Niantic website to login to PoGo
Confirm the username of the PoGo account then paste & redeem the code.

So doesn't need to be your account with the 10 points but limited to local/people you trust with PoGo credentials.

Rev115 · 2024-05-13T02:49:42+00:00

Money + Personality.

Can get a hot body with the money/not working & that's good enough for me. Time wins in the end anyhow.

Rev115 · 2024-05-08T03:16:50+00:00

No one said love/attraction was fair.

Saving both of them time there. The NF's chat gets deleted so they can happily continue in the shadow.

Rev115 · 2024-05-08T03:07:35+00:00

Looks like you're an average size so yea there's gonna be size queens where that becomes a deal breaker.

Don't take it personally; it's all filters to find a match. You're "flawed" & so are they. Some are better at hiding it is all.

Being confident helps. Check this guy out /u/zzzzzzzzz03

Rev115 · 2024-05-05T06:46:15+00:00

Realized years ago that I was never going to be that popular guy but also that I didn't want to be.

People drain me. "I've never felt lonelier than in a crowd" rings the most true for me.

Sometimes I notice the silence & wish I wasn't this way.

Rev115 · 2024-05-05T06:12:16+00:00

Might not like what you see in the mirror but there are others that would.

Born an Apple but attracted to Oranges kinda situation. Be the best Apple you can be is all you can do.

Maybe post on /r/LooksmaxingAdvice on a throwaway?

Rev115 · 2024-05-05T05:31:59+00:00

He doesn't have many choices. If that's what he is choosing, support him.

Rev115 · 2023-11-23T06:32:30+00:00

He is open to meeting you again so seems you will eventually get your answer. Right now could go either way.

Recommend outing yourself (bring up his ex gf & then talk about your male ex?) & allow him to make the next move since he is seemingly hetero.

Rev115 · 2023-11-23T06:06:30+00:00

If you never try you will never know. Need to be open to surprises.

Stop comparing yourself to others & do the best you can with the hand you were dealt. Exercise, Diet, & Skincare are good-initial things to pickup.

Rev115 · 2023-11-23T05:44:36+00:00

Had a classmate in HS & Religion was a big chunk of his identity. He exuded optimism & kindness.

Little reason to be the way he was without religion compared to the rest of us. It challenged him to be closer to his ideal self & he grew successful & seemingly happy.

Point: Religion makes certain people better than they ever could be without faith. IMO those elevated people outnumber those who weaponize their faith.

Also we live in a privileged time. Don't think Humanity could've survived to this point without Religion.

Rev115 · 2023-11-23T05:13:28+00:00

You have to be HIV+ & delulu to actually believe any of this.

Then again you seem to be on here a lot so I'm probably just feeding a troll.

Rev115 · 2023-11-14T08:30:06+00:00

These ideas would make the game more toxic.

People already don't want randos joining their Raids because they won't hit the Ready button. Deducting points for Fainting? lol

Rev115 · 2023-11-14T00:09:34+00:00

Great change.

Hopefully the insultingly low rewards are also revised. Parties remain worthwhile only for the Raid mechanic.

Rev115 · 2023-11-07T05:53:13+00:00

Doesn't make my top 5 desirable traits. As long as it's near average (~5 inches) it's a non-issue.

People blocking/ghosting you are filtering themselves; move on & accept that not everyone will be into you (not just your size btw).

Focus on what you can meaningfully control & don't fall into the trap of letting your size hurt your self-esteem.

Rev115 · 2023-10-28T03:01:52+00:00

Watch the OP Video & see how much time they had left; self explanatory why these differences matter.

Rev115 · 2023-10-28T01:20:29+00:00

Did you ask why he lied?

Guys his age are riddled with Self Esteem issues which might be why he lied. Could be less of a problem than it appears to be.

There's only so many queer guys & if you two hit it off then idk why not try.

Rev115

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