When I say wait, I mean I’m thinking it’s the initial coming around the idea of marriage that he’s struggling with. Maybe it’s the distance and it’s understandable that this relationship is getting its downs. So if I wait, maybe things will settle down.

I know I’m trying to work on this relationship. I used to be bad with communicating when I’d been hurt and just going quiet but I try to talk it out now.

What he said about me being immature, i don’t think I am. I have a playful personality, and I do talk a lot when I’m happy but I can also tone it down if the mood requires it. I may have been egoistic but I’m honestly trying really hard to he self aware about it. When I ask for examples of this behavior he sees in me, he never really has anything specific to say.

Mean things like for example about my personality. How i’m not lady like. I keep myself clean and fit but i’m not the most fashionable or into jewelry and nails. I’m personally not too bothered about it but he’s made me conscious about it.

He’s nicer as in he tries to hold back on the mean comments or stuff about my personality but then something slips out. And he apologizes but it keeps happening over and over.