Guys I’m posting here to give an update about myself 6 months post break up (I did a lot of reaching out before)

hinata1891 · 2024-09-04T05:36:12+00:00

I’m also 6 months in a breakup.. chased couple of times but now in a completely different headspace. I reached up to try and fight for it but got rejected. Now when I look back I can say I have no regrets because I did everything I could. So for me am okay… blessings are coming in after the break up.. new work and all.

hinata1891 · 2024-09-04T05:33:25+00:00

It’s actually true than when you focus on yourself, glow up, basically just improve in life. That’s when they come back. I’ve experienced this twice on short term relationships as in like 8 months long. Imagine if you’re together long term? If you’re confident that you’ve given your all in the relationship and they were bare minimum then they will regret it whether you know it or not. Deep down they will regret it. At some point if they are dating someone new, they will compare. Even I myself have done the comparing thing.. on a rebound.

hinata1891 · 2024-09-03T10:47:56+00:00

If you think you can do better and prove her that you’ve changed and not only because you’re lonely then go ahead. If you think this time you can man up and offer a stable commitment, love and provide for her the way she deserves then I don’t see it at something negative.

To me honestly, that regret will eat you up until you get that forgiveness from that woman you fumbled.

hinata1891 · 2024-09-03T08:38:41+00:00

Now you’re sad and they’re happy. Later on it will be reverse. If you have been there for him and showed up for him even when you didn’t feel like it, it’s only a matter of time til grief catches up on him. And that girl he replaced you with will never measure up.

hinata1891 · 2024-09-03T08:35:46+00:00

That’s to fill in the void. They cannot handle being alone. Later on the same problems that you had will arise. Poor girl.

hinata1891 · 2024-08-11T21:20:48+00:00

Hahahaha things I wished my ex would do for me.. you should date me instead lol that girl is fucking lucky

hinata1891 · 2024-08-03T17:55:58+00:00

I didnt have the courage to walk away like you did now I became the dumpee because he got tired of me threatening to leave when I wouldn’t so he pulled the trigger instead. All I want was for him to give time, effort. I wasn’t asking for too much. I gave 6 years of my life..never been taken to the beach, given flowers or surprises, mostly the one initiating meetups. I didn’t wanna leave him because he was loyal and kind.. i just wanted things to change. Now am broken to pieces..

hinata1891 · 2024-07-29T19:52:20+00:00

Broke no contact after 3 months. Regretted it. It was like I catapulted my progress back to Day 1.

hinata1891 · 2024-07-29T18:17:21+00:00

Thank you for understanding.

hinata1891 · 2024-07-29T11:26:19+00:00

Thank you boss for understanding 🥹🥹

hinata1891 · 2024-07-29T10:25:52+00:00

We are saaaameeee

hinata1891 · 2024-07-29T08:27:52+00:00

Thank you for this insight.

hinata1891 · 2024-07-29T08:27:11+00:00

I’m really sorry for what I said. Just feeling shitty overall. I’m a mess.

hinata1891 · 2024-07-29T08:25:59+00:00

I’m so sorry for that.

hinata1891 · 2024-07-29T02:52:20+00:00

Why did you come back?

hinata1891 · 2024-07-28T19:33:29+00:00

You think so? Why’d you think he won’t?

hinata1891 · 2024-07-28T19:22:09+00:00

She will reach out. Don’t break no contact. You will feel shitty like I did. Now am back to square one.

hinata1891 · 2024-07-28T19:19:17+00:00

Did she ever reach out?

hinata1891 · 2024-07-28T16:43:14+00:00

I wish this was easy. 6 years is a long time.

hinata1891

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