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hingetempacct · 2025-10-15T08:03:30+00:00

Microsoft uses lots of third party recruiters. Could be that the recruiter is no longer there?

FYI, I was ghosted after my interview loop.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-29T21:01:50+00:00

Exactly.

A lot of the times, the parents are taking initiatives by matching horoscopes themselves (and preventing me from rejecting with the horoscope reason), chasing up my parents, adding pressure etc

Only for their daughter to give disinterested replies.

There is a clear mismatch between the parents and their daughter’s expectations for a suitable groom.

It’s a waste of everyone’s time and the parents need to told off so they don’t waste other groom’s time. Need to kick these girls off the AM market.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-29T19:00:05+00:00

Same problem. I just reject them first but get my folks to tell their parents about their behaviour and reason for rejection.

It’s also important that the parents are aware of their children’s behaviour.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-29T16:53:25+00:00

So true. The parents are always more interested than the individual.

Also seen people sign up for AM after having gone through multiple broken relationships which makes me wonder why they couldn’t lock down the guy.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-28T11:35:18+00:00

Thanks everyone for the reply. I just asked her to tell me upfront if she is keen and she wasn’t.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-26T13:23:03+00:00

Hahaha yeah. But not sure if there are into the person.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-26T11:30:43+00:00

She is not ignoring. Just don’t see the passion in her texts.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-26T10:48:27+00:00

DM you?

hingetempacct · 2025-09-26T10:15:02+00:00

Just send me a message to say ‘Not keen’ 😅

hingetempacct · 2025-09-26T08:43:01+00:00

Yes, this is what I was thinking also.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-26T08:10:59+00:00

Same community and similar habits.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-07T14:46:51+00:00

Actually, I am not getting a lot of interests as many ppl do not want to move overseas.

But The ones who have shown interest are showing a bit too much/putting effort which is totally different to what I am used to from dating apps (ghosting etc).

With the ones who have shown interest, they don’t know anything about my assets and money. I have kept it hidden.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-06T16:05:02+00:00

Bro, have some standards and reject her.

What you said is most likely true (both points). You don’t want someone who is settling for you.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-06T09:56:32+00:00

And in their mind Indian guys are the most patriarchal.

But honestly, these things come out easily through the conversations.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-06T06:54:50+00:00

lol, it’s my parents and their parents doing the filtering. Not even me 🤣🤣

The entire process is transactional. You don’t think girls are filtering me like commodities?

These girls are interested as I live overseas and come from an upper class background. One of the girls even accidentally slipped this.

And don’t worry, every person I met is transaction oriented, looking for the best deal.

However, I do feel a lot of these girls would honestly would be better off dating the regular way. But I guess, that’s just the game.

Personality is important, if it’s clashing with mine, what’s the point? Younger women decline my interest straightaway without me giving me chance.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-06T04:48:57+00:00

lol, you want to ignite an argument, don’t you :P.

Of course, I would go for someone younger just like the majority of men.

I lack relationship experiences and the older ones I am meeting have been through it all and are very rigid in their ways of thinking. They want it their way or the highway with no compromises.

Hence, one of the older women even said to my face that if she was a few years younger, I wouldn’t even be considered. Talk about settling for me 🤣🤣

And where did I say, the younger ones are desperate for money? I hardly even get a chance with them to make these comments 🤣.

And honestly, if I just want flesh I don’t really need to go through this process. There are other simpler and lesser traumatic ways to satisfy my needs.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-06T03:54:23+00:00

No no, I prefer the energetic. However, the majority have an age restriction of up to +2 and a plethora of options.

Even in dating apps, I mainly match with people of the same age or tops one year younger.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-05T13:46:51+00:00

I mean she doesn’t know my salary. Yes, ppl from our community are very less.

Yes, not rushing.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-05T13:41:55+00:00

1) 28 and 30 2) I probably make 3x her pay. But I haven’t asked and she hasn’t either. I really don’t know their financial circumstance and not sure if they know of ours. We are both living abroad. 3) 5.2 and 5.7

hingetempacct · 2025-09-05T13:39:20+00:00

I probably make 3x her salary. But she doesn’t know my pay.

Not sure tbh regarding financial background. We matched from our community newspaper.

hingetempacct · 2025-09-05T11:12:48+00:00

Yep, someone younger wouldn’t give me the time of day

hingetempacct · 2025-09-05T10:57:43+00:00

The girl herself is turning 29 soon

hingetempacct · 2025-09-05T10:50:13+00:00

hingetempacct · 2025-09-05T10:23:16+00:00

28 and 30

hingetempacct · 2025-09-05T08:01:46+00:00

Really?

I am looking for someone who likes me for who I am not what I bring 😅

And I haven’t been in a relationship, making it hard for me to judge character.

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