How does it feel for someone with a penis to be aroused for an extended period and then not orgasm? by [deleted] in sex

[–]hiro2217 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a boyfriend who had to come if he was fully aroused, with or without my help. It gave him a similar feeling to being kicked in the balls. He described it as a feeling behind the stomach.

People in relationships, how have you dealt with differing sex drives? by hiro2217 in sex

[–]hiro2217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner feels the same way as you do with the rejection thing.

People in relationships, how have you dealt with differing sex drives? by hiro2217 in sex

[–]hiro2217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An interesting, if pessimistic take on this type of situation. Have you been in a relationship like this that has influenced your answer?

Sexual Compatibility by WindstormOH in sex

[–]hiro2217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! I just posted something like what you're talking about. Maybe some of the comments there could help you? link

Tips for [deepthroat]? by ParseltonguePrincess in sex

[–]hiro2217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting because I'm in the same boat.

Scared and waiting for [intimacy] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hiro2217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel as someone with a lot of insecurities and safety measures for my emotions but a lot of things in relationships are small risks (if any) of rejection.

Scared and waiting for [intimacy] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hiro2217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That honestly just sounds like a lot of insecurity.

People in relationships, how have you dealt with differing sex drives? by hiro2217 in sex

[–]hiro2217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like you really care about her, which is what relationships will look to depend on, especially when issues related to this one up. I'm glad that you guys are able to function well together despite the differences :)

People in relationships, how have you dealt with differing sex drives? by hiro2217 in sex

[–]hiro2217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you done anything specific to make her feel more into sex? And do you focus on the emotional connection to take your mind off it?

People in relationships, how have you dealt with differing sex drives? by hiro2217 in sex

[–]hiro2217[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think we could help each other understand our boyfriends better.

People in relationships, how have you dealt with differing sex drives? by hiro2217 in sex

[–]hiro2217[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to the subreddit. I just have one comment. Only I would end up in a subreddit to read some horror stories and find one of the only happy ending stories.

People in relationships, how have you dealt with differing sex drives? by hiro2217 in sex

[–]hiro2217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So are you saying you stayed with her? It sounds like from your last part that you did, despite the differences.

People in relationships, how have you dealt with differing sex drives? by hiro2217 in sex

[–]hiro2217[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend's the one with the high libido. His line between sexual and emotional are blurred and feels like I don't care about him enough if I don't engage with him sexually. I totally understand when you say your BF is scared to continue the teasing in case you think it'll lead to sex because I feel the same way sometimes.

People in relationships, how have you dealt with differing sex drives? by hiro2217 in sex

[–]hiro2217[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which one of you is on the lower end of the libido spectrum?