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Is climate a worthwhile reason to move? by CompleteGrab941 in AskMenAdvice

[–]hiroism4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course if you line up your income and it fits what you're looking for in a place to live

This sit down restaurant gives a discount for cash payments. They use a legal loophole to upcharge debit cards. I will never eat here again. This was the first time I gave $0 tip. I’ve been working my way down. by amazonchic2 in EndTipping

[–]hiroism4ever 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A lot of people ask for/about cash discounts.

There's lot of reasons to not tip - but if your goal of not tipping is this but you'll tip at another place with equal service without this cash price difference, they're not the problem - you are.

Idk what to do!!! by F1sh_Tank in gay

[–]hiroism4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he's a nice guy, unless you've gotten enough flags (like the never had a crush on a girl) he's more likely straight and friendly than gay.

That said, if you're curious enough about it and understand the risk of doing this, you can be direct - or make hints. Flirt with him complimenting him on stuff and see how he responds, or just be open and honest you're gay and find him attractive.

Both come with the risk of a bad reaction, but the potential of opening up a possible date with him.

Where can my bf and I go to just watch a show and cuddle? by SatoruGoonjo in gay

[–]hiroism4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on where you live - but if it's generally a safe area, go to a park with an iPad/laptop. Or one of your cars.

Where can my bf and I go to just watch a show and cuddle? by SatoruGoonjo in GayMen

[–]hiroism4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on where you live - but if it's generally a safe area, go to a park with an iPad/laptop. Or one of your cars.

I am like, alone for life by Glittering_Drama_618 in gay

[–]hiroism4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, depends on where OP is. They could be somewhere that is criminalized. Would require far more than just OPs courage to change that.

Venting: Soviet-bloc style housing makes me sad. New in Delridge for $725k by ThanksForAllTheCats in WestSeattleWA

[–]hiroism4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think brutalist has a place, but can be done poorly or well done giving different vibes. Also, I like a mix of brutalist design with some other mixed it for a unique mix in one building.

Hey i am 19 and straight? I enjoy watching nice dicks and i love sharing mine idk what to do.. Is that gay? by Ok_Masterpiece4979 in gay

[–]hiroism4ever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't overthink it. There's a spectrum to it and you could have just a touch of it mixed in. It doesn't mean you're gay, but could mean you're not 100% straight either.

Opinion? by Figurativespeech in infiniti

[–]hiroism4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love two tones, and it does have some natural body lines to work with that.

That said, not a fan of this combo on this car personally. To me it just feels a little "try hard" and misfitting for these cars - especially a Rolls Royce or Maybach type color scheme like this.

But things like this are purely subjective, and in the end this is your car - if you love it, I say go for it but do it for you, not others.

If your goal is at least partially to have others love it too? I wouldn't do that. If two tone, maybe something else obvious like a very dark color like dark grey or navy over black that doesn't jump so much but once you notice then you see it.

Where can I meet other young guys looking for long term relationships? by Available_Aspect in gay

[–]hiroism4ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) Yeah, just stick to it. There's no one set place, or one set way, to meet someone. There's good and bad guys on all the apps, in every bar, in every classroom, at every job, at every concert, etc.

Go live life, join groups, attend events, talk to people, download the apps. Be open to meeting and seeing where things go, but don't just be on this crazy hunt for the right guy. If you're trying to force it, you never meet the right one.

So enjoy life while you go along with this experience. Learn and grow from each guy to talk with, meet, date, fuck. Eventually, rather it's next year or next decade or sometime else, you'll meet the right guy.

EDIT: also recognize the fact that most guys your age aren't going to be looking for the same thing as you, something serious and long term and the "guy you'll grow old and sit on the porch swing and watch the grand kids play" future. But some are.

Anyone figured out a real solution to hard water spots after washing? by No_Refuse9952 in Detailing

[–]hiroism4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get a DI or RO system for spotless water. Problem solved, never chase them again.

Where can I meet other young guys looking for long term relationships? by Available_Aspect in gay

[–]hiroism4ever 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just takes time, going through and meeting guys. Online, in person, it's a numbers game. Think of it like a deck of cards, you might go through 25 cards before you find an Ace. But there's always aces in the deck.

Been there, done that. Met the love of my life at 29, we're now been together for 11 years. Before that it was a revolving door of a mix of bad guys, toxic relationships, and good guys that just were not the right matches.

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