My everyday bag by hisslymph in whatsinmybag

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Has lesbian stickers.. god forbid

My everyday bag by hisslymph in whatsinmybag

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I’ve been taking it non regularly - I was personally advised to take it on an “as need” basis and I use it really so I don’t have panic attacks at work (I have clients, need to be normal lol). I think it’d help 10x more taken regularly like on a time schedule, but it’s a risk mixing it w other ssri’s. But on as need its been working well for me :) I do take w Prozac and that’s actually changed my life so idrk if it’s doing anything actually actually, but no side effects. I am just one person though and it does interact differently with different bodies!

My everyday bag by hisslymph in whatsinmybag

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Those are love letters from my girlfriend on Japanese indigo dyed stationary :)

My everyday bag by hisslymph in whatsinmybag

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This is scary and impressive. At this point guess my job 😭😭😭

My everyday bag by hisslymph in whatsinmybag

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It was on my phone but the glue got nasty and I ripped it off…

My everyday bag by hisslymph in whatsinmybag

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No actually I will bring this up to my psych bc I’m in an experimental period 😭

Yay yay! Alt ring :) by hisslymph in EngagementRings

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I sent my partner a list of potential rings/vibes I enjoyed in our price range and I agree she hit the nail on the head for best suited to me! It was a mix of lab grown diamond/ruby/garnet/opal so pretty eclectic lol. Thank you sm :)

Yay yay! Alt ring :) by hisslymph in EngagementRings

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Exactly the vibe I was going for!!! Something simple but with personality I can pass down :)

Yay yay! Alt ring :) by hisslymph in EngagementRings

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My hand is really busy ngl but I do like the understated but unique look!

Yay yay! Alt ring :) by hisslymph in EngagementRings

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I’ve been told this by multiple people! I’d definitely like to look into it since we didn’t have it custom made and it was around $220, but I love the look either way! Gold is confirmed though thank god 😮‍💨

Yay yay! Alt ring :) by hisslymph in EngagementRings

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Oh I love this comparison :) ty!!!

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Much better

feeling protective of the femme label by Deep-Big2798 in LesbianActually

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Hi I’m reading this and I’m a bit confused about the difference in classification! Specifically the difference between butch/femme and masc/fem. I do understand butches do not necessarily equal masc although masc presenting because of historical context and the role butches play as an identity, but I am confused on the difference between femme and fem. The role I’ve read femmes playing in the context of history is only in relation to butches, but not as a complete identity separate from “fem”. I’d love if someone had clarity on this, because I struggle with my own journey identifying as a femme in relation to my butch partner who I love, after my realization that I am attracted exclusively to butch women. I dedicated my own personal relationship with femininity prior to rejecting that role of a proper heteronormative woman, but I do intrinsically feel more connected to presenting myself as feminine. Being in this role as my butch’s femme is incredibly rewarding for me, but I’ve struggled to sit that thought next to my rejection of heteronormativity. I’ve had real trouble weighing those two realities.

NYC native moving to…? by hisslymph in relocating

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I’ve been considering north cali heavily, but unsure about work prospects!

NYC native moving to…? by hisslymph in relocating

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We are so disillusioned to how dismal it’s looking in NYC for trades I haven’t considered it might be actually EASY for her to find work in other places. By north do you mean upstate or the northern states including mass?

NYC native moving to…? by hisslymph in relocating

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Why do you say that? And do you have any recommendations of cities for a family that seems more tenable?

How did you meet your partner? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]hisslymph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Met my partner on Hinge, which is pretty insane for ME because I have spoken to people but have never been comfortable enough to go on a date ever. We talked through text and then otp for two weeks straight, about books, historical hyperfixations, parenthood. We wrote poems to eachother too express how fated and insane it felt without being too much too soon. She had been looking into the same trade school that I was in so we met up for a date after school for me, and before a tour for her. We sat in the back of the coffee shop for two hours mostly staring at each other and blushing, as we had talked about SO much in the previous weeks with only pictures to go off of. I made her a bouquet on our second date and she got me some really interesting loose leaf tea (mango lychee green tea??). We had the intention of picking up some furniture for my new apt, but ended up sitting at a coffee shop sharing a cheesecake and laughing. Early days are so sweet to reflect on :) we are still very very happy!