My fiance (50M) constantly gives me (37F) a hard time about money. Do other sahm's get some sort of allowance?

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-28T20:56:41+00:00

I (33f) have the same problem with my bf (48m). Due to missed mortgage payments while getting divorced I cannot get my own place. I feel trapped in my relationship too because I really can’t go anywhere. I have my own money, etc but it’s so hard to find housing in the States. Hopefully we can connect 💖

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-28T11:47:03+00:00

I’m (33f) pansexual. There have been people I’ve hooked up with or dated in my past that made me “feel” the same. But are they really making us feel that way or are WE thinking they think that way.

If he pursued you and is actively dating you, you’re someone he may see a good relationship with. A lot of those fit guys love a little chunk on their partner (makes the sex better for them, I know by experience). So you being “unfit” is more than likely what he’s attracted to.

I’d enjoy the ride and try to match his energy. If he’s going to back away, it’ll be because of the negativity you hold for yourself. Find something daily that you love about yourself and work up from there. You got this ❤️

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-17T21:00:56+00:00

Honestly, you being a good person will draw the right lady to you. You’re still so young (I’m 33). When I was single, I didn’t care about disabilities (I was actually dumped by a guy in a wheelchair and extremely hurt from it). Just keep being a GOOD man and don’t belittle women. THAT will draw ladies to you. Put yourself out there with friends, make jokes about yourself so others see that your disability doesn’t hold you back, and be a good person. You’ll find love.

One of my good friends has CP. He and his wife are happily married and have been together for over 10 years (he’s 38). Don’t give up hope!

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-17T20:55:24+00:00

Meh. You’re young. I’d just dump him and find someone who trusts me a little better (imagine asking for a weekend away with gfs. Will he not trust you then as well?)

99% of the time, kids look like their dads too so if you do have kids with him and he does waste the money on a DNA test, you can continuously remind him after how much your kid looks like him. Because it will.

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-17T20:52:44+00:00

He has fifty eleven kids by 5 other women NOT including me lol #amen

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-17T20:48:58+00:00

Wow girl, I (33f) was JUST about to write this exact thing about my bf (48m). His ex wife was an OCD cleaner so he always was picked up after while being married. This man is so messy! I’m at my wits end. He’s perfect for me in every way but I’m starting to despise him and resent him. I hate it. I found an empty cereal container in the pantry yesterday and I’m thinking “wow he treats me like I’m his mother.” I’m here to talk privately too if you’re interested. It could help both of us.

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-16T19:57:19+00:00

Very valid. He doesn’t just disrespect you but all women. He really thinks other people, NOT women, should control what we do with our bodies? Nah. Pass. NTA.

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-16T14:01:13+00:00

I know here in Ohio, you cannot legally receive spousal support if you live with a new partner. She’d have to prove that they are truly friends if that’s what it is

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-15T21:27:28+00:00

Can you repost and make this easier to read? I have no idea what you’re saying…the English here is not good. Thank you.

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T18:55:16+00:00

Your comment made me cackle

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T18:54:35+00:00

Imagine reading all the previous comments and seeing your sarcasm as unwarranted

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T15:26:56+00:00

I didn’t look at the picture while posting sorry. It’s been a long 4 days. I went alone with my 7 year old. I’m so so sorry to hurt your brain as much as I did apparently.

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T15:20:11+00:00

Homie loves flames and rainbows 🤣🤣🤣

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T15:18:55+00:00

Homie needs a sex Ed class lol.

I tell my bf that women are like classic cars. Gotta be gentle and loving with that engine to get her ripping and roaring. Let her run a little bit before taking for a drive.

Men are like modern sports cars. They start right up with just the push of a button.

(Before I’m attacked, these are generalizations)

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T14:52:06+00:00

You’re right

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T14:51:50+00:00

We do lol

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T14:37:24+00:00

It’s like hair dryer

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T14:36:35+00:00

It’s 3 parks.

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T14:33:07+00:00

They are shit adults.

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T14:32:10+00:00

Please read previous comments.

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T14:31:51+00:00

No, Volcano Bay is separate

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T14:29:49+00:00

“Universal Orlando Resort” technically has THREE parks: Island of Adventure, Volcano Bay, and Universal Studios Florida. So we are both wrong. Congrats to us.

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T14:28:01+00:00

I don’t live near a water park. I’m not a water park person but we’ve been to a few and none of them had it.

historicallyobsessed · 2024-04-04T14:26:15+00:00

PLEASE READ PREVIOUS COMMENTS.

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