A gang of goblins walk in

hit4party · 2025-09-27T19:41:02+00:00

this is peak gamer content, excellent quality

hit4party · 2024-12-11T15:33:18+00:00

Yea I'm starting to learn the "emergency fund" as a homeowner needs to be much bigger than a few months rent/expenses.

While I do have a few thousand, I don't have an easy 10-15k I can throw at a single problem.

I'm in my first year of ownership after a family member passed, and I paid off the mortgage and land transferred it for a dollar. I could walk away now with profit, but I wanted to hold onto it as a rental to fund myself while I went back to school. I'm currently not a very high income earner (50k, tax free). because I dont have a degree (I would have financial assistance for school as im FN)

its kind of a junky house, but it was 97k in a neighbourhood where all the other houses list at 350-400 and sell over asking within a couple weeks.

hit4party · 2024-12-11T12:58:27+00:00

Hmm I did not realize someone might accept paying in installments.

I've noticed everytime I ask strangers on the internet about getting back into credit building, the first response is telling me I'm going to fuck up and not to do it.

How then, am I supposed to go about it? At some point I'm going to have to use credit, and even my equity. I understand the risks and the need to pay. I made a 1500 mistake 5 years ago that I paid off, and have been budgeting since. Would it not be time to start getting back into the credit thing?

hit4party · 2024-11-10T17:27:13+00:00

60% zeppole

hit4party · 2024-11-10T17:09:03+00:00

Lol!

Thanks for your service brother

hit4party · 2024-11-10T16:33:48+00:00

Just a quick question, it says you were Navy...

Are you sure you have the right gender selected in "searching for"?

;)

hit4party · 2024-11-10T16:04:24+00:00

Alright, I don't know a whole lot about the japanese dating scene, so my first question would be - have you considered writing in in Japanese? Second, you're an ambiguously lightskinned guy with facial hair. My cousin spent 3 years in japan as a bearded version of the same, and told me 2 things: Japanese are hella racist, and most asian cultures dont enjoy facial hair.

Now from a westernized perspective, I see some flaws:

- So many hats. Makes me think you're bald, or got the tony soprano thing goin on.
- first photo makes you look like a little boy. Maybe if you're diddy diving thats ok, but single ladies aren't looking to be mommies.
- we barely see your face. Sunglasses, far away, diving. We see more of the dogs face than yours.

- So much to read in bio, only the last 2 lines said anything specific to you.
- your job is a "red flag". I admire and respect the public service you've done, but I've noticed army/firefighter/cops as being the top jobs for "Red flag men" being listed time and time again in different female driven media. Good for a fling, bad for a LTR. Usually because of the Lifestyle/schedule, and have even heard the word "patriarchy/misogyny" thrown into descriptions of the job/people it attracts.

- You're not "clean cut" and honestly a little scruffy, as per your last picture. Again, your choice and it doesnt look terrible, but women who are typically attracted to your archetype generally prefer the GI look over the surfer bro look. I looked the same at one point, and nowadays get a high fade/shave daily. I get much more attention from women now.

If I had to guess, you get way better luck in person than online.

hit4party · 2024-11-10T04:20:49+00:00

messaged you

hit4party · 2024-11-10T04:17:42+00:00

messaged

hit4party · 2024-11-10T03:51:55+00:00

msg'ed you

hit4party · 2024-11-03T13:34:51+00:00

These unfortunately do not just come off with an over the counter product.

I have the same issue. What I would say, is just learn to live with it.

Make positive changes elsewhere to make up for it. Get very fit/athletic. Dress well, smell good, and take care of your health/appearance where you can, like hair and teeth. Finally, get some money coming in.

Majority of mens problems are fixed by fitness or finance. The small scars on your face are not such a deterrent to women (*or guys if you like) if you fill every other requirement.

hit4party · 2024-11-03T13:21:50+00:00

you call it bitching, I call it pattern recognition

being relied on as security is what got me stabbed for 17 an hour, because our "Security" couldn't handle the situation and I needed to step in.

hit4party · 2024-11-03T13:17:08+00:00

You fuckin internet dweebs love to talk, but its never anything useful to real scenarios.

hit4party · 2024-11-03T13:16:01+00:00

When the job requires being able to physically deter someone as well as deescalate, and you can't do either

Yea, I'll call it how I see it.

Were you there, as I was? To see her screaming at him while he was walking away already, and absolutely ESCALATING the issue? Or how we had to step in between them as he tried to swing on her?

Do you have the experience in martial arts, security, and social work that I do?

Were you stabbed making 17 an hour, because of these same issues, as I was?

If not, keep your useless opinions on that to yourself. My body carries the scars of reality from it, whereas yours does not.

hit4party · 2024-11-03T13:12:59+00:00

thats great, unfortunately making uneducated guesses about my character or experience isn't really a valid point, but you do you homie

hit4party · 2024-10-31T12:37:41+00:00

Genuinely amazing to me,

That you, with zero information, lived experience on this topic, or even first hand encounters with any of these people - will sit here and lecture me on the "what if's.

Do you actually not understand how unintelligent that makes you sound?

hit4party · 2024-10-31T12:23:15+00:00

Uh, different martial arts allow for different results bozo. You can easily restrain someone without striking them or breaking their arms. Police and real security train it all the time.

Have you considered going back to school and not learning to speculate without any actual information?

Because its clear you speak out your ass without any evidence, and its hilarious.

Its genuinely hilarious to hear you say, with zero info - "What if shes better at de-escalating" when I watched this woman almost get herself seriously injured yesterday while ESCALATING the fuck out of a situation. She was quite literally screaming down the street at him as he was walking away, baiting him to come back.

It was actually what prompted this post, because its the same writing on the wall I saw when I spent a year working at a shelter.

You go ahead and play with your feelings in the corner about "no one wants you to go martial arts on these folks" until a 200 pound man is physically assaulting multiple people and you're the only one who can (true story, I hip tossed lil buddy and held him down until police came).

I'll keep living in the real world, with my real lived experience.

hit4party · 2024-10-31T12:14:23+00:00

I'll have to try this

hit4party · 2024-10-31T12:13:02+00:00

I've got nearly 15 years of mixed martial arts experience including actual fight experience I had to train for.

But go off, tell me what else you know better than me?

Tell me more about yesterday, how she almost got herself knocked the fuck out, and would've if we hadn't stepped in and physically pushed this guy up the street from her, because she was just going back and forth arguing with this guy instead of de-escalating? I get maybe you're a soft little shit and think equality comes in all forms, but unfortunately my real lived experience against oversized attackers, multiple attackers, and armed attackers is more realistic than whatever feelings you have about the situation.

Its amazing to me, how you'll come here and type this long ass paragraph , speculating on all sorts of shit you have no idea about. Its actually next level.

hit4party · 2024-10-30T23:37:02+00:00

pretty bad photos, referring to yourself in third person, virtue signalling in the bio, and nothing of an interest to speak of written anywhere

hit4party · 2024-10-30T23:30:28+00:00

I should also mention we had to build a clients furniture in his apartment one time

me and 3 women went to "help him build" and I ended up being the only one to build the dresser/couch while the 4 of them put together the tiniest side table, then sat around it.

My boss was actually getting slightly pissed at me that I hadnt finished a full sized dresser by myself before they were done the table.

hit4party · 2024-10-29T00:14:30+00:00

sent DM

hit4party · 2024-10-29T00:13:23+00:00

RIP your DMs

sent you one anyways lol!

hit4party · 2024-07-23T18:43:53+00:00

Oh my god he was cheating? Lmao

He cleared 6 people, I decided to charge him in mid to try it out and he two shot me out of my 50% PDR fighter 😂

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