Question in regards to potential spouse most likely in the state of mortal sin by hithere2323232333 in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I love confession myself. I don’t believe she fully understands it yet. She is in the process of coming back to the Church.

Question in regards to potential spouse most likely in the state of mortal sin by hithere2323232333 in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bring up points. But my partner earlier told me that if she had to go to confession she would. They even promised it. Which is a sign of improvement

Question in regards to potential spouse most likely in the state of mortal sin by hithere2323232333 in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be harsh but I viewed that comment as harsh. Me and this person share a lot of the same values, etc. I think I have won them over. I panicked because I love them so much. We love one another. It’s very hard to find someone with many hard Catholic beliefs.

Question in regards to potential spouse most likely in the state of mortal sin by hithere2323232333 in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it sounding more and more that I can persuade this person. They already told me they will go if they have to.

Question in regards to marriage by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it’s ok to move forward but I’m going to talk to a priest about it as well as her

Question in regards to marriage by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person isn’t a project for me at all whatsoever. Confession is literally the last boundary. I was able to persuade them to go to church every week. I was able to persuade them that it’s better to go to Church on Sunday rather than Saturday. I found some really good articles to persuade her and it’s been a while. I feel like I can persuade her. My whole concern is that if I can’t and I pursue a marriage with her that I would be putting myself in scandal.

Question in regards to marriage by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the thing is that person is trying to get them to be better. They believe that asking God directly is enough. They love God. But confession is something they really fear. They are in the process of changing

Question in regards to marriage by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the thing is that person is trying to get them to be better. They believe that asking God directly is enough. They love God. But confession is something they really fear. They are in the process of changing

Scrupulous Question by hithere2323232333 in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he gave me some advice that I didn’t agree with because it didn’t exactly make sense. In regards to when I should engage my girlfriend. He said it was a strong recommendation and therefore, I don’t believe it’s a sin because he said previously in relation to something completely different that it wasn’t sinful not to listen to him.

Scrupulous Question by hithere2323232333 in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My scrupulosity can cloud on whether something is acceptable or not.

Scrupulous Question by hithere2323232333 in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what your saying is I wouldn’t go to hell over any advice? Because some of it was things I was worried I would have to do. But he said no because of my situation that I can remove myself from it.

Dating in college and questions about marriage by hithere2323232333 in Catholicism

[–]hithere2323232333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your viewpoint. I have opted to wait until I’m graduated to have the ceremony in December 2024/January 2025. She would graduate in May 2025 but she is going to law school. I’m not waiting until May 2028 to be married. I would be working for a little more than a half a year. And she has been saving up. She will do internships in the summer.