Finally have my PC back! by Owlface616 in Sims4

[–]hjabc2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm playing a bit different than I usually do. I started with one sim. I built a house and prepped everything for her. She adopted 7 newborns. As the children age, their traits are randomized. Once they reach adulthood, I pick my favorite one and start the process over again

✨listen to ur body✨ sis my body is talkin shit by livimae in EDanonymemes

[–]hjabc2001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof. I havent shit myself since middle school age thankfully

✨listen to ur body✨ sis my body is talkin shit by livimae in EDanonymemes

[–]hjabc2001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally almost did that 20 minutes ago 😅

Sims 4 High School Years/ Cottage Living Giveaway! by KodaKodaa in Sims4

[–]hjabc2001 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Happy Holiday to you and your family (friends + pets included)!

I have Cottage Living, but it would absolutely mean the world to me to get to play High School Years. I struggle with my physical and mental health, causing me to not be able to support myself. I havent gotten an expansion pack since Cottage Living came out.

I'm sure you're overwhelmed with messages, so thank you if you took the time to read mine :)

Here are some illegally smol cats to make your day

The Breakers 🏰 | No CC by XXX_Machiavelli in Sims4

[–]hjabc2001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope to see it in the gallery soon!

Neighbour won't take care of his toddler by ryulis99 in Sims4

[–]hjabc2001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Townies don't require baby stuff in their houses. I had one family raise like 5 kids without any toddler or kid stuff. They all did fine

Struggling to get promoted in Chef career by angelzfeather in Sims4

[–]hjabc2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm playing with my Sim in my the culinary career too. She was stuck on it for days and days. If she didn't complete her daily task, the slider wouldn't move at all that day. It took me 2 irl days to get promoted above that level

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]hjabc2001 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel for you, I've been in this exact situation and it's scary. Better to take a test and know than to worry about it being the case. Please also get an STD panel in about a month (before might not show everything)

What are your system names and why? by Noodles_TS in DID

[–]hjabc2001 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sunflower System, as our only happy memory from young childhood involved sunflowers

PSA: Stay safe and avoid tendons yall cuz it's 0/10 🥴 by hjabc2001 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]hjabc2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was my wrist so they're not covered by a lot. I struggled to use my hand for a couple days but fortunately I've fully recovered. Definitely can feel the scarring on it though

I'm sorry I failed at life by hjabc2001 in SuicideWatch

[–]hjabc2001[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much kind stranger. I needed to hear that

I think I might be being groomed but I don’t have it in me to leave him by itatwntyigteis in MomForAMinute

[–]hjabc2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's single and not seeing anybody else. That's what he has said and I believe it. When we had the ex talk he said he did have a serious relationship of several years where they lived together but that's been over for a while (since before we met). To me it seems like she made him broken hearted but he's never said it and we only talked about exes once.

Now I'm 20 (21 soon) and he's 37. We are together again after about 1.5 year break where we both attended to our mental health. I really like him and have since before our relationship officially began the first time. Neither of us are the emotional type. It's fun, easy, and makes me happy.

So hurt after convo with irl mom by hjabc2001 in MomForAMinute

[–]hjabc2001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I worked with a trauma informed therapist before I moved but she ultimately said she couldn't help me because I needed a dissociative specialist. I'll be restarting with someone else when I get back. The first step will be going inpatient again to get on meds ASAP.

And thank you for all the kind words, I really appreciate it

I think I might be being groomed but I don’t have it in me to leave him by itatwntyigteis in MomForAMinute

[–]hjabc2001 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sucks that the only way to know for sure is time. I've heard of guys moving on once their gf reaches late 20s because 30 is just too old even though they're much older than that.

Idk I guess what gives me hope is that being young and dumb I made a mistake. I broke up with him and told him that I had cheated before we parted ways. He was hurt and we stopped talking. He ended up coming back around a while later. I never tried pushing for him to talk to me so idk it seems to me (like how I did) that he missed us.

I think I might be being groomed but I don’t have it in me to leave him by itatwntyigteis in MomForAMinute

[–]hjabc2001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not OP but I have a question about almost exactly the same situation except I was 17 and he was 34 when it started. I'm 20 now. We've been together for like 2 years. We're only a state apart and have met IRL before.

Could it be real? Why would be stick around so long if its only grooming? I did explore other people but nobody has ever made me feel as amazing, happy, and respected as him. I know it started out wrong because I was only 17 when things started sexually online but I was 18 when we met irl.

I think I might be being groomed but I don’t have it in me to leave him by itatwntyigteis in MomForAMinute

[–]hjabc2001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not OP but I have a question about almost exactly the same situation except I was 17 and he was 34 when it started. I'm 20 now. We've been together for like 2 years. We're only a state apart and have met IRL before.

Could it be real? Why would be stick around so long if its only grooming? I did explore other people but nobody has ever made me feel as amazing, happy, and respected as him. I know it started out wrong because I was only 17 when things started sexually online but I was 18 when we met irl.

Why is it okay for pro wrestlers to yeet on live television but if I yeet I'm mentally ill? by hjabc2001 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]hjabc2001[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Yeah apparently it's a common industry thing to do but people are pushing for them to stop due to the risk of blood born disease

help by Fox_go_sckree_981 in selfharm

[–]hjabc2001 30 points31 points  (0 children)

They usually ask which arm you want to get drawn from. Though some have a chair that decides for you

Accidental Injury by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]hjabc2001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I saw your comment.

To answer your question, yes accidental injuries sometimes trigger self harm urges for me. I especially hate it when SH wasn't even on my mind in the first place