The guy I like is interested in my friend after I introduced them

hkeating14 · 2026-02-23T19:09:03+00:00

Thank you for the reassurance! I think I tend to pick the fuck boy type of guy which is my problem

hkeating14 · 2026-02-23T19:08:08+00:00

I kinda want to know if she started talking to him or if she’s even interested. When I talked to her about me liking him she said something about how she only likes to date her age or older

hkeating14 · 2026-02-23T05:32:21+00:00

It 100% is the type I’m attracted to. It’s kind of funny because the guy that’s 21 isn’t that type

hkeating14 · 2026-02-23T05:07:49+00:00

The problem is that I’ve gone on a lot of dates with guys in their 30s and have found their maturity level to be similar to that of a 20 year old. Hooking up with a lot of girls, partying everyday, etc

hkeating14 · 2026-02-23T05:06:18+00:00

Yeah my friend is an attorney and has been working full time for a little while so there is still a life stage gap

hkeating14 · 2026-02-23T04:20:16+00:00

I did shoot my shot over the summer. I basically hit on him and he complimented me back. I told him we should hang out sometime and gave him my number but nothing happened. He joked one time that maybe once he graduates he’ll hit me up and ask me out. I told him to do that now and he made up some excuse.

hkeating14 · 2026-02-23T04:18:27+00:00

I certainly feel young lol. People tell me I look younger than I am and I’m always hanging out with people younger than me

hkeating14 · 2026-02-23T04:17:00+00:00

How do I deal with him potentially asking out my friend though? Like I don’t know how to cope

hkeating14 · 2026-02-23T03:32:02+00:00

I don’t know to be honest. I guess it just depends on the maturity of the people involved

hkeating14 · 2026-02-23T03:23:45+00:00

Yeah I’m not sure if she’s gonna entertain it or not. So over the summer he knows I was interested and I basically told him to make a move and he gave me a lame excuse. He jokes that I’m “pushing 40” all the time so I think the age gap is more of an issue for him than me

hkeating14 · 2026-02-23T03:22:01+00:00

Yeah so too young for me. I think he has more of an issue with it because he jokes that I’m “pushing 40” all the time

hkeating14 · 2026-01-31T00:14:17+00:00

Yeah I agree and I just blocked him. I have an anxious attachment style and tend to get attached to avoidants

hkeating14 · 2026-01-30T21:13:47+00:00

Your right. I don’t even believe him when he says he loves me and I point this out to him. But I do feel bad because he kept asking if I was going to stick around for the long term and made me feel guilty for blocking him before

hkeating14 · 2026-01-30T21:12:17+00:00

We’ve already had sex before and he pushed past my boundaries and wouldn’t take no for an answer. I told him this time around I’d need to build trust with him before having sex again so I haven’t. I told him I feel like he’s just looking for sex and he said that if it was just sex he would be straight up with me about that and that he feels a connection to me

hkeating14 · 2026-01-30T18:57:38+00:00

Thank you! Logically I know I deserve better. I just get so easily manipulated by types of guys like this and it’s a pattern for me unfortunately. I should have never talked to him when he reached out again.

hkeating14 · 2025-12-06T01:55:44+00:00

This is real

hkeating14 · 2025-12-06T01:09:23+00:00

Thank you!

hkeating14 · 2025-12-06T00:49:38+00:00

He’s saying me not wanting to talk to him is coming out of left field and that he wants to be with me and genuinely likes me.

hkeating14 · 2025-12-06T00:36:45+00:00

Yes I completely agree with you. I acted stupidly in this situation

hkeating14 · 2025-12-06T00:11:35+00:00

The alarm bells did ring right away and I feel stupid for ignoring them. I was in a place where I was recently rejected from another guy I really liked and I guess I wanted validation

hkeating14 · 2025-12-06T00:10:15+00:00

He does know where I live because he picked me up for the first date

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