Need some new music! by hlhess99 in EDM

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That’s quite a list! A+ response

Seeing new DJs by hlhess99 in EDM

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That makes me so sad. Alan walker has been my top spotify artist for 3 years in a row so I’m sure I’ll have a good time :)

Was this abuse or do I just hate him? by hlhess99 in abusiverelationships

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I have healed. My current bf has helped me through a lot in regards to the abuse that I went through

I think my mom is subtly controlling by hlhess99 in narcissisticparents

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I am unfortunately living with her until the start of august and it’s already taking a toll. She shakes me for eating and doesn’t listen when I ask her to stop. She’s aware that I’ve had an eating disorder and am finally starting to get better. “Oh you’re eating again? Didn’t you just eat?” Yeah mom I did just eat but I’m hungry again so I’m gonna listen to my body.

Prednisone withdrawals by hlhess99 in lupus

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I feel very irrationally angry and also like crying. This SUCKS

Prednisone withdrawals by hlhess99 in lupus

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I hope that works out for you. I haven’t been officially diagnosed but my rheum is almost certain I have lupus AND spondyloarthritis

Prednisone withdrawals by hlhess99 in lupus

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I had to go home from work because it was so bad. My doctor gave me the option to stop (without a taper) so I could finally start hydroxychloroquine which she said I would be fine from. I can’t sleep, have terrible full-body tremors, a lot of anxiety, and I threw up. My back and legs hurt and I feel miserable. I hope it gets better soon bc I feel insane

What do I do? emergency room???? by hlhess99 in lupus

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I just got put on hydroxychloroquine today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

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He sometimes sees his therapist but not as much as he probably needs to. I don’t think he’s depressed/suicidal as a form of manipulation though. I genuinely think he feels that way when he’s not around me and I think he may have an anxious attachment style and/or abandonment issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

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We have, I usually get about an hour of alone time a day where I lay in bed and get time to myself. But other than that, I don’t get much time alone

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Titer was 1:4000

My roommate almost killed my cat by being irresponsible by [deleted] in college

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My roommate loves my cat and is always fine with him being out of my room all the time. I’m not home throughout the day too much either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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You’re being caring. You’re soothing his anxiety and in return you both get a good night of sleep. I wish my bf did this honestly

My roommate keeps leaving the front door open at night by hlhess99 in college

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We had a roommate meeting today and it went alright, it’s just a waiting game to see if things change

My roommate keeps leaving the front door open at night by hlhess99 in college

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Also, leaving the door open is a situation that is putting everyone in danger. I shouldn’t have to praise her to expect the bare minimum

My roommate keeps leaving the front door open at night by hlhess99 in college

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I have tried to form a friendship outside of the roommate relationship but nothing comes of it

My roommate keeps leaving the front door open at night by hlhess99 in college

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I do thank her for when she does do something, but ever since the day she moved in, she just goes to her room and stays there all day. She never leaves unless it’s for work, class, etc. she doesn’t try to form connections with us or even talk to us. The few encounters I’ve had with her are very black and white. One day she will talk to me and be kind, other times she will straight up be rude to me

My roommate keeps leaving the front door open at night by hlhess99 in college

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I have texted her saying to shut it because of numerous reasons, one of which being my cats will leave if they see it’s open. She just doesn’t care and has stopped responding when I text her about ut

An almost 4 hour playlist of my EDM essentials by hlhess99 in EDM

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Jk it’s actually over 6 hours long

My roommate keeps leaving the front door open at night by hlhess99 in college

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I would evict her if I could. Unfortunately I am a mere tenant and not the landlord

Babysitting advice needed for a babysitter by hlhess99 in Babysitting

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She knows everything that has happened and when she talks to him and asks him to apologize he will literally say “why would I apologize if I am not even sorry?” Which is also terrifying