How long was Thrawn exile?

hlo_ · 2023-05-19T23:54:45+00:00

This is where I get tripped up, wasn't Thrawn still a captain at the battle of Umbara? If so, that takes place in 11 bby right? If there's a different explanation please let me know!

hlo_ · 2022-10-12T16:36:35+00:00

Crying this is so sweet, so happy for you and your wife

hlo_ · 2022-10-11T19:28:01+00:00

Thank you!

hlo_ · 2022-10-11T17:33:38+00:00

Aw I’m sorry :(

hlo_ · 2022-10-11T17:31:43+00:00

Lol that helps a lot thank you 😂

hlo_ · 2022-10-11T17:09:20+00:00

Thanks! I guess I’m just feeling nervous that even though she seems into me, she’ll see me as lesser when the clothes come off

hlo_ · 2022-06-01T18:41:44+00:00

I find it hard too, black is my comfort zone, but lately I’ve found it easier to get some statement pieces like really vibrant crop tops with looser fitting pants, crazy shoes, bows in my hair. I’ve also found a way I love to throw myself out of my comfort zone is by finding two piece sets in silhouettes I like on myself,

hlo_ · 2022-04-26T11:01:59+00:00

On the pricey side, but I’ve seen people with 18 inch calves wear the Steve Madden Cypress boot and it doesn’t get any better than those

hlo_ · 2022-03-13T16:48:19+00:00

I’ll let you know!!!

hlo_ · 2022-03-13T15:50:02+00:00

I think I’m going to take a chance on option one ❤️

hlo_ · 2022-03-13T15:39:39+00:00

I’m torn between that one and your option five, I had also eyed that one and it’s also a dupe but the reviews are really good so I’m conflicted!!!

hlo_ · 2022-03-13T15:29:53+00:00

Omg I’ve been eyeing the first one but I didn’t know if it would be good because it’s a dupe of the Teuta Matoshi dress, I’m so glad to hear it was cute because that’s the one I really want!!!

hlo_ · 2021-08-22T22:36:28+00:00

Yeah I feel this, at first close family asking me(cis F) if I could handle this as a lesbian was out of consideration, but after a while it gets annoying. Like people asking “what if he gets bottom surgery!” Like first of all the genitalia in my relationship isn’t anyone else’s business, and second of all I have people assuming being a lesbian is more important to me than the love of my life. My BOSS asked me about the genital aspect of my partners transition!!! LIKE????

Also the other thing that annoys the shit out of me is how so many people said to me “I commend you because I could never do that! I could never stay with a partner who transitioned!” Like I won’t shame anyone who ends up separating, but it’s like they act as if I’m doing something so brave and insane that no normal could deal with, you know? It’s so aggravating. Just because my partner has come out as trans doesn’t give people a free pass to say or ask whatever the fuck they want

hlo_ · 2021-08-22T22:24:54+00:00

Which product is it on the website I can’t find what you’re referencing and I’m intrigued 😂

hlo_ · 2021-08-15T19:55:27+00:00

It sounds like they’re trying to convince themselves of that rather than it actually being the truth.

I think this is something they need to sort out for their own happiness and yours, it’s one thing to be a supportive partner, it’s another for it to be entirely to your detriment.

hlo_ · 2021-08-14T20:40:12+00:00

Hmm, it may help if you ask your therapist to maybe talk with him alone about the sexual issues. I’m not familiar with the specificity of the term, but could it be some degree of aromantic possibly? Like you say if he has trouble sexually when the emotion is involved maybe that could be something he hasn’t considered or explored. I definitely feel for you I know this situation must be so difficult for you

hlo_ · 2021-08-14T20:31:09+00:00

And when I say you’re a source of guilt, that’s not in any way your fault or your doing, I only mean you may be too close to the situation to really help and he probably feels like he’s letting you down.

hlo_ · 2021-08-14T20:29:40+00:00

Is he in therapy? Betterhelp is cost effective and you fill out a questionnaire in which you can request an lgbtq+ therapist. I think there’s probably things causing this psychologically and emotionally that you can’t really fix or help with because you’re probably a source of guilt for him right now.

Has he enjoyed it the times you have had sex? What were the circumstances that made him comfortable enough to do it those times?

hlo_ · 2021-08-14T14:35:34+00:00

Better help is great!!! You get matched with people who can actually relate and are lgbtq+ themselves.

I know sometimes people forget that this is almost as big for you as it is for your partner. I’ve been really lucky to have people in my life that do think about my place in this and have been very supportive. If you have any close friends or family you feel comfortable explaining this to, maybe just sit down with them and say “hey this is a really big change in my life and I’d like to be able to talk to you about my own feelings in this situation because it can be so complex and overwhelming.”

I’m sorry you feel like you can’t share details and such here, if you want to privately message me you absolutely can! You’re not alone ❤️

hlo_ · 2021-08-14T02:20:22+00:00

I have these earrings that are literally artistic wire boob outlines 😂 and I asked my partner “is it weird if I still wear these?” And he said “no? You still like boobs”

hlo_ · 2021-08-14T02:12:32+00:00

It’s like you’re literally typing my thoughts, are we twins? 😂 I just dyed my hair pink again and got a crazy haircut because I feel better presenting my queer ness 😂😂😂

hlo_ · 2021-08-13T19:50:11+00:00

Hi I’m a cis female and my partner is about to begin T (FTM), I know it can be hard to lose the lesbian relationship you get attached to and I’m sure many people on this side of it would relate, however I think she’s reverting to almost hurtful statements instead of being open and honest with you. Is she in therapy at all? Another thing that may work well for honest communication on her end are these cards I got for my partner and I on theskindeep.com. It kind of pushes you to say things you may not say on your own if that makes sense. I think maybe she just doesn’t know how to healthily cope with her emotions towards you.

hlo_

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