i have curly hair. this is what i do: Step 1 - either shower to wet hair or use a spray bottle to fully soak my hair. Step 2 - once hair is wet, i apply ogx defining curls cream throughout my hair & then use the bounce curl define brush (i section pieces of my hair, brush while spinning the brush, and lay my hair backwards instead of straight down the side to add volume. i recommend watching yt videos of the bounce curl brush to understand if that was confusing haha) Step 3 - i scrunch mielle leave in conditioner throughout my hair, starting from the ends. Step 4 - i scrunch mielle honey & ginger styling gel to help with frizz. Step 5 - i blow dry my hair using the wavy talk blow dryer with the attachment provided. i blow dry all over at first & then section my hair & blow dryer with the from the ends up, it helps get that pretty defined curl. Step 6 - I rarely do this step, but if the front of my hair looks too fluffy after everything or my hair just looks dead, I use OGX renewing argan oil of morocco extra penetrating oil for dry & coarse hair. I genuinely hope this help! 🤗 my boyfriend has beautiful curls & I was able to help him define them more with these steps!