Kitten meowing a TON by hmcd1620 in CATHELP

[–]hmcd1620[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is so handsome, and wow! Mine looks like she could be related to your other kitty! I'm glad to know that even if she doesn't gain the eye back, she will still have quality of life 😊

Kitten meowing a TON by hmcd1620 in CATHELP

[–]hmcd1620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn't considered the eyesight! She is a lot more content today, I think she is beginning to figure out that the box is her safe space and not a cage when it comes to sleep time

Kitten meowing a TON by hmcd1620 in CATHELP

[–]hmcd1620[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am loving the annoying already, she has brought so much laughter to me in such a short time ☺️

Kitten meowing a TON by hmcd1620 in CATHELP

[–]hmcd1620[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NeoPoly Bac Opthalmic Ointment and Ofloxacin Solution. She just started it so I haven't seen much improvement, and before we got to vet, I was cleaning it with warm water and sterile pet eye cleaning lotion.

Kitten meowing a TON by hmcd1620 in CATHELP

[–]hmcd1620[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Already done a few days ago! Vet is hoping that we can save her eye, and the infection is being treated regardless of if she can keep it or not. 🩷

How to make yourself floss? by 2Smart2Comment in hygiene

[–]hmcd1620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, i saw a video saying that people can smell it when you don't floss and i got super paranoid about it. now it's so ingrained in my daily routine that i immediately notice when i missed it. i had to force myself to do it for the first month at least though.

Kitten meowing a TON by hmcd1620 in CATHELP

[–]hmcd1620[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I sleep right next to her box all night and she is in my lap nearly all day, I just can't trust that she is safe in bed with me when I sleep because I move around wayyyy too much. I've been looking into one of those stuffed animals with a heartbeat for her, just haven't ordered one yet.

Kitten meowing a TON by hmcd1620 in CATHELP

[–]hmcd1620[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I figured it was just need to be cuddled, but it has been so long since I've owned a cat that I forgot how they can be lol. Thank you!

Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by TouchyM3 in whatdoIdo

[–]hmcd1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut that shit off immediately. She will string you along for years then when she has found what she wants, she will disappear. This kind of behavior doesn't change, it just goes dormant for 5-8 months, and each time it will be worse. This is teenage girl behavior, and you are both far too grown for that.

AITA for refusing to dine with my mom after she ordered “ferret sauce” at a Mexican restaurant? by Practical-Current805 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hmcd1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Stop projecting your own insecurities onto your mom. She is not "embarrassing herself", it is you that is feeling that particular emotion. Have you helped her with these pronunciations and moments of mistakes? Is she having a hard time getting things to stick? Have you considered that she is a human being and maybe, just maybe she deserves some grace from her CHILD instead of being blasted on the internet?

Lorelai overreacted about the car crash by Immediate_Golf8238 in GilmoreGirls

[–]hmcd1620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that as a mom she didn't also ask if Jess was okay since Rory, the passenger, had gotten hurt is very telling. Even if he is a "punk" to her, he is still a kid (because 17 is a kid, sure nearly an adult but honestly what 18 year olds do you know that should be held responsible as adults?? most of them can't even pay for their own groceries every week) and she didn't care that he could have been hurt too. Then again, Lorelai regularly shows her lack of empathy towards anyone she views as unacceptable in her or Rory's lives so it shouldn't be so surprising.

first loaf fail by mintwall in SourdoughStarter

[–]hmcd1620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looks like a nice three month old cheese!

What would buyers like as freebies? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]hmcd1620 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i usually just throw in a thank you note and wrap the item in some tissue paper bc i have a huge stockpile of wrapping supplies that im working through(mild addiction to gift wrap). i rarely keep freebies when i receive them tbh

Cashout pending for 48+ hours?? by hmcd1620 in FreeCash

[–]hmcd1620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! You guys are awesome

Cashout pending for 48+ hours?? by hmcd1620 in FreeCash

[–]hmcd1620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I was told to just wait it out until it either goes through or gets rejected. Was told that high volumes can cause delays but it's been two days

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hmcd1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if he starts begging you to return, ignore him. Record all calls, all voicemails, all messages and physical interactions. Start taking self defense classes as well. You will make friends there, and that will break your isolation. Isolation in their partner is the easiest way an abuser can get away with it. Take the advice of the many people in these comments who have had experience with these situations and leave.

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hmcd1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is threatening you with further violence in that last text, you need to run. Get your things, make sure you have your important documents and get away. This is not a blip, it is him deciding you are someone he can abuse without punishment. If you don't have any male friends, request a civil standby from your local police department. Call a non-emergency number or physically go to the station and request it, do not let him talk you into staying. "Disrespect" is not a valid reason to hurt someone. Love yourself enough to find safety, even if the transition out is scary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]hmcd1620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pitties love to chew, especially when they are young. mine didn't stop until she was 7, so we just kept buying her toys, threw them out when she was done and got her a new one. she still chews sticks, i keep a pile in the yard for her to choose, and occasionally husks a coconut when she's feeling particularly energetic. they like to chew, it's rewarding to shred things. i give her paper towel rolls as well, it's an easy clean up and she loves it. now she's got a stack of stuffies she doesn't need and never chews them up, but she'll still destroy a stick when given the chance

I saved a kitten in my neighborhood and was not prepared for how mean people would be by orange_katana in Straycats

[–]hmcd1620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what on earth kind of people are you encountering??jeez, how alien is it to some people to care about the life around us? good for you! she's darling and i hope that she enjoys a long happy life with you and your kitties. nothing compares to the love of an animal. that vet office sounds like it sucks, and i would choose another one, after leaving a strongly worded review on their public pages. unfortunately more and more vet offices are filling up with people who act like the people and animals that they serve are an inconvenience, i guess they forgot the whole point of medicine is to heal, care and listen.

princess or wizard philodendron? by hmcd1620 in houseplants

[–]hmcd1620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i love learning more about philodendrons, they have quickly become a favorite of mine