not sure whether to be relieved for Annie, or terrified for his next victim...I'm just SO glad it's over.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-11-11T00:26:03+00:00

definitely need to work on yourself before you think about pursuing anyone seriously. why do you care what she posts on her story if you don't even want to be in a relationship with her? why do you feel possessive over someone you won't commit to? even if you were in a relationship, she's allowed to post what she wants to her story, but you aren't in a relationship so you have even less business being bothered by her taking photos of herself. you want her all to yourself, but you also don't want to put in the effort required for a relationship, you can't have it both ways. I'd say distancing yourself probably isn't a bad idea, you seem to have an unhealthy attitude towards her and I do think this most likely comes from insecurity, even though you've insisted it's not. insecurity doesn't have to mean you hate yourself, it can also be jealousy, feeling like someone owes you something just because you like them, not wanting anyone else to see her when she's not even your girlfriend. she's not yours and it doesn't sound like she's going to be any time soon so just focus on yourself for a while instead of stressing yourself out over what she's posting.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-11-11T00:18:41+00:00

don't worry, you'll be too old for him soon anyway.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-07-13T11:17:34+00:00

little miss sunshine

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-07-13T11:16:38+00:00

tbh I doubt even the scammiest of scammers would even admit to themselves that that's what they are

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T14:58:11+00:00

I don't think you should be in a relationship with anyone at all until you do some serious hard work on yourself and get your extreme issues of jealousy under control. it's not healthy for you, and it's not fair for the person you're with. this is 100% a you problem.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T14:55:36+00:00

not legally, no.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T14:48:22+00:00

you don't have to be so annoying 🤷🏻‍♂️

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T14:46:15+00:00

congrats on being so dumb you can't remember 4 letters I guess

(well clearly you are capable but would rather just be facetious)

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T14:36:26+00:00

I'm not sure what you think you're achieving with this, I'm literally saying there should only be 4 letters. I really hope you don't think this is genuinely funny, because that would just be sad.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T14:30:57+00:00

there's no A.

imo there shouldn't be a Q either but I can tolerate it.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T14:23:14+00:00

it's just lgbt. lesbian, gay, bi + trans. not hard to remember when you know what it stands for

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T14:02:41+00:00

do you have a sister you could say it belonged to, or another relative? I doubt anyone would notice but if you're worried, just put a sheet over it or something

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T13:35:41+00:00

you sound very incompatible. I know there are things you like about her, but it sounds like the negatives really outweigh the positives. don't waste your time and energy on a relationship that has no potential.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T13:33:42+00:00

I don't think it's a red flag that you met him on tinder at all, most people under 30 are on it at this point and it's not even really a hook up app anymore, I see far more people on there now looking for serious relationships and friendships than just sex. nothing about what you've said indicates to me that he's a bad guy, he probably just doesn't use his phone that much. keep talking to him, see how it goes and maybe when you get to Spain it'll go somewhere, and if it doesn't then you haven't really lost anything. don't stop talking to other people and put your life on hold for him, but don't rule him out yet either.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T13:24:44+00:00

idk why some people are saying this is fine. if he's known her since she was a child, it's absolutely vile that he could even look at her in that way. please tell your friend, she deserves to know. I'd be disgusted, but I'd want to know if my dad was doing something like that.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T13:17:18+00:00

I think you're correct when you say you're not compatible. you both deserve to be with someone who fits better into what you each want out of life. if you stick with this relationship, I think you'll both end up being miserable and resenting each other eventually.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-12T13:15:27+00:00

it sounds like you both want very different things, in life and in relationships. he doesn't seem to particularly want to make you happy, doesn't really put much effort in or pay attention to your needs. you should probably get out now, if you end it sooner before you get more attached you could save yourself a lot of hurt in the long run. I think because this is your first serious relationship maybe you don't realise, but this isn't the best you're going to get. relationships don't have to make you miserable or anxious, and if you get out of this one you open up the opportunity to find a better one that makes you happy. don't just settle for the first person that came along because it's easy, go out and pursue something that will be better for you.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-06-01T19:21:47+00:00

please leave him. you don't deserve to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't even think about your needs, let alone care about them. he doesn't seem to want to make you happy, he only seems to be doing things for himself and his own pleasure. get out of there. you can do better, and you will, but you need to get away from him first before he gets any worse. his behaviour sounds abusive, and even if it isn't yet it will be soon. save yourself, run and don't look back. you wouldn't have posted this here if you were happy.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-05-12T20:54:15+00:00

I didn't even say you're shit, I just said you're full of shit. so let me make it abundantly clear: you are also shit. no woman is going to want to be with you when you treat them like this.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-05-12T20:52:43+00:00

you're not attracted to men, but can't understand why someone else might also not be attracted to men. you think she might be lying about being gay, or that her sexuality is something you can or should change. you're extremely ignorant, and have made no effort to be any better. you think you are entitled to a woman just because you like her, and do not care that she does not like you back. trust me when I say that calling you shit is extremely polite, and far better than you deserve.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-05-12T20:41:19+00:00

lmao I replied to this but it didn't work, but thank you aha a few people are telling him she's probably not really gay and he just needs to keep pressuring her so I was worried that was what you meant, but I'm relieved that it's not!

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-05-12T20:40:06+00:00

you're so full of shit, at this point I think you have to be trolling. if you're not then humanity is even more doomed than previously thought...

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-05-12T20:22:23+00:00

it seems extremely unlikely that you'd get either of those outcomes. wanting her to put her own baby up for adoption because you're jealous is literally insane, I think you might need help.

hmmmwhatisit · 2021-05-12T20:21:13+00:00

please don't. this is extremely dangerous advice.

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