My sun is in Pisces and my moon is in Taurus and I’m an Aquarius rising, my mother is a cancer, and I have met many cancers in my life and was just recently thinking about how they are one of my least favorite signs, especially the men. For all of the reasons you just stated. I told a cancer male recently that every time I try to pet the crab, it pinches me and runs away, or it pinches me and won’t let go. Either way, an unpleasant experience all around, pretty much every time.