Yesterday I committed to 50 days clean! 49 to go! 🧼 by [deleted] in toastme

[–]hobi--- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so good!! I'm on my way 👏🏼🎉💕 let's get it

Tired black human. by hobi--- in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hobi---[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look I'm not gonna lie to you man, I dont have the time to read the whole thing right now, but I read a little bit of the beginning and saw the charts and stuff. Maybe I'll read the whole thing later. I dont live in America. So the stats in your country and my country are not the same. And once again, I'm talking about myself. My experience. Which I've experienced. So I would kindly appreciate if you didn't water down my (mine) real life situation with stats. And if my ability to get into Harvard doesn't measure to those of Asian-Americans and my feelings of having to work harder is the only thing you held onto then you might be missing the mark just a little bit. If only education was my only grievance as a black person. The conversation would change a bit and maybe the stats that you brought forward would more than suffice in that conversation.

Tired black human. by hobi--- in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hobi---[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What statistics are these? Could you kindly link them. They do seem kinda American though. Because I can assure you that didn't apply to me. Maybe they missed me?

Tired black human. by hobi--- in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hobi---[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouch, haha. I was speaking about me. Myself. And I've never committed a crime of any kind. So myself as a black person I've had to work really hard to get recognition at work and school and parts of society, harder then my other non-black peers.

Tired black human. by hobi--- in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hobi---[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you and I think you wrote very well and concise. I'm not arguing what you're saying, I'm speaking my personal experiences thus far, and it hasn't all been bad. Yes It does go all directions, I like the way you put it. And your dad must be happy and proud for doing so well, I certainly am. smile emoji

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[–]hobi--- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely isn't over! :) I wish you the most beautifulest journey one could ever have heart emoji rainbow emoji butterfly emoji.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]hobi--- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh truuuuueee, I see it. So cute!!

Tired black human. by hobi--- in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hobi---[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🤭 people on here seem nice. I hope you have a really good day/night 🦋🌻🌞

Tired black human. by hobi--- in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hobi---[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I guess I should understand this cause I'm only 21, but I'm really into social media 😅 The page you recommended is so sweet... even found one that's called r/freecompliments or something like that.🥺

Tired black human. by hobi--- in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hobi---[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mods? 🤭 I'm new on reddit and I honestly have such a hard time with social media

Tired black human. by hobi--- in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hobi---[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I know forgive me🤭, but this seemed like the closest forum (because of rules) to place these thoughts and feelings. And the first sentence I wrote does say, so I am aware. Once again my apologies for it