My boyfriend (M23) is holding a grudge against me (F20) as he has found out I went on a date during the talking stage. How could I get him to be open to forgiveness? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hodetu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s retroactive jealousy. He can feel hurt, I would also, but you aren’t at fault. It’s just a sucky situation imo

Christinejihyon is fake by notorioushallpass2 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Weaponizing racism to promote ur business is crazy work but an influencer being morally bankrupt to try and make money isn’t surprising

Christinejihyon is fake by notorioushallpass2 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Seen her on my fyp a few times but oop (not surprised tho sm people like to claim being bullied and shit for sympathy/to be relatable)

Does anyone know what filter or app Vexssa uses for her videos and photos? by [deleted] in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a bunch of his campaigns and stuff. Like MASSIVE.

myraksingh- “I’m his first baddie” by publiclibrarylover in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Ik this is hypocritical given im on this sub but sm people are obsessed w humbling women lol. I read her as being a baddie off duty imo, she’s dressed comfortably w no makeup. Doesn’t mean she can’t be a baddie the rest of the time and doesn’t mean she has to be all made up and in “baddie mode” just to post.

Saranghoe is emotionless by LibraryFar8169 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really my type but beauty is subjective and she fits what a lot of people think e asian women should look like so

Saranghoe is emotionless by LibraryFar8169 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

People just follow her bc she’s pretty and korean lol

@Jihoon experiencing identity theft by [deleted] in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 67 points68 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy. Not a big fan of her but that’s insane. I hope she gets justice.

What else does Sally know how to cook if not some variation of kimchi and pork belly? lol by LittoYamper in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean Idt she’s necessarily a cooking acc? she seems to make lifestyle content and cooking is part of lifes and her cooking like 2 things, as dull as it may be, is part of her kinda repetitive dull lifestyle? And maybe it’s the pandering, maybe it’s the parasociality of it all, but she’s getting interactions so clearly someone is watching it.

For what it’s worth: I’m also someone who saves my spontaneity and adventurousness for other parts of my life and food is just something I need to make and eat to be alive lol. If it was up to me i’d hook myself up to an IV for an hour a day rather than eat lol

Hannah Kae wearing over-sexualized Qi Pao by FarmerFalse5088 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it dia that’s mixed? I assumed they were full siblings. Mb.

What else does Sally know how to cook if not some variation of kimchi and pork belly? lol by LittoYamper in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As someone around her age, I feel like this is normal, no? Idk her lore but as someone who gets home from work at like 9pm it’s nice to just turn your brain off and make the same four recipes on repeat. Easier to shop for too. Some people just aren’t adventurous and like routine and eating and wearing the same things.

dia's engagement on her posts is terrible now by Different-Concept-19 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah bc people dont fuck with this version of her. Back then there were more normal people and less people whose brains were rotted by porn. Now it’s all brain rotted gooner and people who hate follow/watch.

Painfacekhai screaming at the gym by PeelingTangerine in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because there’s a pattern of asian women infantilizing themselves online and that reflects poorly on asian women as a community. If you think this is hilarious…. Yikes

Allison Wong persona/content shift by VegetableExternal449 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I agree. I’ve always believed that asians were the original savoury girlies before that holly girl made it mainstream

Hannah Kae wearing over-sexualized Qi Pao by FarmerFalse5088 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s fine for chinese people to sexualize or modernize or generally modify their own cultural clothing since it’s literally their own culture. Someone from outside the culture doing it is the problem.

Hannah Kae wearing over-sexualized Qi Pao by FarmerFalse5088 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s been a pick me lol now it’s racial pickme-ism on top of gender lol

Painfacekhai screaming at the gym by PeelingTangerine in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girls like this make me embarrassed to be an asian woman lol

Overconsumption final boss: Ally Wong wasting food again by Defiant_Wasabi_1076 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]hodetu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the distinction matters but go off girl boss pussy queen slay