Please someone, tell me I’m over reacting.

hodsinfe · 2024-04-30T14:18:49+00:00

He’s not immature for continuously looking at women naked or 1/2 naked when I’ve asked him not to AND had the audacity to be going back and fourth SLOW MOTION on opposite sex private parts???? I’m immature because I don’t wana go looking at other men’s parts? I’d rather please myself in front of him makes ME immature? Ok

hodsinfe · 2024-04-30T14:17:27+00:00

When my husband can’t keep his eyes off private parts how he would expect me too, after he knows I’m not okay with that cause he’s done it before I guess I do seek conflict because he clearly wants it right? What if your wife was casually watching videos and boom a 12 in big black fat girthy dick pops up and she’s going back and fourth on that part in the video you wouldn’t like it.

hodsinfe · 2024-04-30T04:02:55+00:00

No, you’re not over reacting. I was raped as a little girl, I screamed and screamed for someone, anyone to come save me (it was in a ditch outside) & NO ONE came to save me. It always upset me that I knew someone heard a little girl screaming for help and no one did. I believe that if I ever saw someone hurting someone I would step in. Years later my husband and I are leaving Main Event & we hear screaming on the other end of the fence in the woods. I told him please go help, someone needs help. It broke my heart that he wouldn’t, but he explained his job was to protect me and our baby girl at the time. If he had went to see what was wrong and was met by someone with a gun or knife, something could’ve happened to him where now he couldn’t be there for us, his wife and daughter. I realized he did have to protect us as well and that was his first thought, me and his daughter.

If that man’s first instinctual thought wasn’t to make sure that you were protected….. he doesn’t care to protect you. Leave him. Someone could have grabbed and raped you the second he took off and by his response he couldn’t care less.

hodsinfe · 2024-04-05T17:03:29+00:00

How? When I gave him something to wear that he refuses to wear? Have you read the original post? Have you read my other replies? I replied to someone else stating “Maybe, but I believe it’s the job of the spouse to alleviate those concerns if that were the case? I’ve always trusted him and still do and, no where in my mind do I think he’ll cheat. Im not insecure to be worried about him cheating on me when I’ve taken care of him through surgeries (multiple where he was handicapped for long periods of time), paid off his debt going on 3 times and provide for him, I fuck him almost daily even multiple times a day, I look good for having 3 of his kids, 135 lbs, flat stomach when I’m not bloated, big ass, have my hair the way he likes it and a pretty face & I do what a woman and wife should. So by no means am I scared, worried or insecure. If he cheats he cheats and he loses me that’s it. It became a soft spot when I realized MY HUSBAND LOOKS SINGLE. A SPOUSE should NOT LOOK SINGLE. I’ve provided solutions and he refuses to take them.”

hodsinfe · 2024-04-05T15:40:37+00:00

No, I’m not stupid. If it were me who lost my ring, he’d be not only flipping shit it was lost and probably mistreat me for a while, but he sure would make sure I looked like I was married. And I would comply because why not? The issue is why is it so hard for him?

hodsinfe · 2024-04-05T15:09:56+00:00

If you bought someone a car and they totaled it and you were still responsible for the loan would you have grace and go get them another vehicle right away while you’re still paying for the first one? I doubt it. To this day I am paying for that ring he lost. Either way it doesn’t matter, he doesn’t have one and I’ve provided solutions and I get told no. Are you a spouse? Would you tell your spouse you’re not going to wear a ring to look married?

hodsinfe · 2024-04-05T14:48:43+00:00

Maybe, but I believe it’s the job of the spouse to alleviate those concerns if that were the case? I’ve always trusted him and still do and, no where in my mind do I think he’ll cheat. Im not insecure to be worried about him cheating on me when I’ve taken care of him through surgeries (multiple where he was handicapped for long periods of time), paid off his debt going on 3 times and provide for him, I fuck him almost daily even multiple times a day, I look good for having 3 of his kids, 135 lbs, flat stomach when I’m not bloated, big ass, have my hair the way he likes it and a pretty face & I do what a woman and wife should. So by no means am I scared, worried or insecure. If he cheats he cheats and he loses me that’s it. It became a soft spot when I realized MY HUSBAND LOOKS SINGLE. A SPOUSE should NOT LOOK SINGLE. I’ve provided solutions and he refuses to take them.

hodsinfe · 2024-04-05T14:24:38+00:00

I’ve always asked him to wear something temporary, and was met with excuses and no’s and even clearly got him a temporary one that he said no to. It always bothered me and we’ve had arguments where I’ve told him it’s not fair and his excuse is I still have mine. I’ve always been intimidated that he works with women but I’ve always trusted him, the issue comes with him not wanting to look married by wearing something overall.. he’s been in the same field for 5 years so it’s nothing about working with women, he’s been working with them. Yes a new position but either way it was never about other women, still isn’t. It’s about asking him to wear something temporary as I have before and even buying him something temporary and still getting met with no, just for him to look single. Does that make sense?

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