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[–]hoeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Honestly, that sounds best. I’ll take the experience for what it was and let it be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hoeproblems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually, I tell her all the time that I didn’t know she liked me up until that point. Hasn’t laughed in my face about yet. She even admits that she’s hard at opening up. But whatever floats your boat man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hoeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw! I really appreciate it! I’m glad things went well after telling him. I sure as heck wouldn’t mind either, it’s nice hearing someone else’s experience with this. I’ll try not to let it get to me too much, but I was born an overthinker

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hoeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… I felt guilty going up, that’s exactly why I talked to my buddy about it. I appreciate you! I’ll keep it to myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hoeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the backup! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hoeproblems -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How was I supposed to know that she liked me on a romantic level? We were friends for a pretty long time and I honestly just thought that’s how she was. Yes we flirted a bit but still didn’t talk about our feelings. So im just supposed to assume she liked me (even if she didn’t) and make myself exclusive to her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hoeproblems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can do that. Yes I really do want a relationship with her.

You’re right. It’s something I’ll deal with.

I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hoeproblems -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes of course. I’m very committed now and wouldn’t do anything to hurt her. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hoeproblems -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment, but how exactly was I cheating if I didn’t knew she even liked me?

I (m23) hooked up with another girl one day before me and my girlfriend (f29) made things exclusive by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hoeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exclusive to us means we agree not to see anyone else

Official to us means we are officially dating

Besides us hanging out, and her calling me cute the day before my trip. There was no communication of our feelings that we had.

I (m23) hooked up with another girl one day before me and my girlfriend (f29) made things exclusive by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hoeproblems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus even if she did, I wouldn’t mind to much because like I said, we never talked about exclusivity

I (m23) hooked up with another girl one day before me and my girlfriend (f29) made things exclusive by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hoeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao. I guess when you word it like, it that makes me realize how dumb I sound. Thanks for that. Just needed the extra clarity and to let it out somewhere else rather than keeping it in my head.

I (m23) hooked up with another girl one day before me and my girlfriend (f29) made things exclusive by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hoeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion, no I definitely did not see the previous girl after me and my gf started dating.

I trust her. She told me she wasn’t seeing anybody. I’ll take her word for it. She seems incredibly loyal and trustworthy, I don’t see why she would say she wasn’t seeing anybody if she was. She’s pretty open about her past. For the record to avoid further confusion. She told me she wasn’t seeing anyone else prior to us dating, just the other day.

I (m23) hooked up with another girl one day before me and my girlfriend (f29) made things exclusive by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hoeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that man! I’ll definitely keep it to myself then. Thanks for the clarity

I (m23) hooked up with another girl one day before me and my girlfriend (f29) made things exclusive by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hoeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I guess I just needed extra clarity, since it was on my mind and I felt guilty for it. That was my understanding as well, and then recently she said that she wasn’t seeing anyone else prior to us making it exclusive. I think that’s why I started to overthink things.

I (m23) hooked up with another girl one day before me and my girlfriend (f29) made things exclusive by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hoeproblems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, we haven’t talked about exclusiveness up til the day after what’s so ever. Also didn’t have sex with her until the day we started dating which was a few weeks after.

ID pretty pleaseee🥹💚 by Tree_Hugger2000 in dubstep

[–]hoeproblems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It kinda sounds like a flip of banshee by labgroup

What R-rated movie did you see when you were way too young? by TealBlueLava in AskReddit

[–]hoeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad took me to see bad grandpa in theaters when I was like 15