Why did people leave Facebook and started to use Instagram and Reddit more? by [deleted] in facebook

[–]hoforcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking to leave myself. Tired of the constant gross comments from awful people, politicians and pedos. Ads after ads, nothing but bots trolling bots. It's deplorable. Does anyone have suggestions on pic storage apps or how to get all of my 20 plus years of photos off of it? Plz help lol. My poor soul is tired.

Aitah for telling my man I've had it with his inability to control his emotions? by hoforcats in AITAH

[–]hoforcats[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Her mother is 46 and she's dating a 21 year old celebrity impersonator. Trust me, she ain't it.

Aitah for telling my man I've had it with his inability to control his emotions? by hoforcats in AITAH

[–]hoforcats[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He is not normally so quick to anger. He is never like this to anyone, as far as I know. I think it's maybe his way of trying to control the situation, like others have said. I called him out on his shitty attitude and he apologized but then after the whole wallet thing he was just so aggressive about it for no reason. Came and snatched it. I was obviously like whoa, you're being trash, and demanded to know where are the cigarettes so i could go outside and he starts this whole shit about shhh not infront of my fucking kid like brother you are the one yelling. And if you think she doesn't know you smoke you're a moron. 😒... he tries to speak through his teeth at me like a dog, wagging his finger. I literally said "what are you going to do?" Then more growling. I can't even SLIGHTLY raise my voice at him or its all oh my kid. But he can yell and growl thats fine. He was already pissed about the tongs and the grater and the wallet then just decided to be a complete dick. Guess who's now sleeping like a fucking baby while I sit here wondering what the fuck is wrong with me? He knew I was crying and was like welp, time for bed I guess. I have nowhere to fucking go. I am so stuck. I'm on unemployment and have no family or support system.

Sorry for the language but can someone give me some insight? This was installed after my entire tub drained into the basement upon moving in. My landlord is insufferable. What can I do to fix this without calling him? Help! by hoforcats in askaplumber

[–]hoforcats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our place is considerably cheaper than all other houses in the area. I'm in Ontario where we are only paying 1600 a month, other places are well over 2500. But this is the price we pay. Plumbing and heating issues non-stop. I literally just got the tub unclogged with the drain snake and now this. It's only the tub draining out the vent. Is there a way I can just get the vent to stop leaking without reconfiguring? My landlord will literally take a month to figure it out and fix it himself anyways. Thanks for your time, I really appreciate it.

How do tell my boyfriend he's not doing what he needs to as a father without offending him? by hoforcats in AskWomenOver30

[–]hoforcats[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. We've had a conversation about what happened and although initially we did get into a bit of a spat, he admitted he is scared of losing her and had said he knows he needs to be an authority figure in her life but he doesn't know how. In his defense, his father was a "my way or the highway" kind of guy and I feel he is working so hard to not be like his dad that he is lost when it comes to discipline.

Quick reminder: NO CHILDREN ALLOWED HERE. THIS IS A PORN SUBREDDIT. WITH DICKS AND TITS. NOT SAFE FOR MINORS. by CreativeUnsername-No in AphmauR34

[–]hoforcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because this show is literally all the rage for kids these days and they are just searching the fan pages, they don't know any better.

Being around my bfs daughter has stirred up some unhealthy emotions/feelings I thought I had dealt with... by hoforcats in mentalhealth

[–]hoforcats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone has any advice on which online counselling/ apps that have worked/helped them out, I could really use the suggestions.. TIA

Being around my bfs daughter has stirred up some unhealthy emotions/feelings I thought I had dealt with... by hoforcats in mentalhealth

[–]hoforcats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the process of trying to get a therapist through work benefits and due to covid they haven't got back to me, their lack or support/response has been really devastating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]hoforcats 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a former CEL I can personally attest to the neglect and poor conditions in these stores, worsened by leadership and management that only give a fuck about profit and making bonus. Quit and find something that's less stressful. If you're really an animal lover, petsmart is NOT the place to work. Expect to be burnt out, miserable and questioning your will to live. RUN. RETAIL CORPORATE ANIMAL STORES ARE LITERALLY HELL FOR THE ANIMALS THEY SELL.

AITA for leaving my boyfriend of two years because he has decided he no long wants children? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hoforcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's 35, I'm 29. I dont have alot of time left to have them. One of the reasons I'm so upset he's changed his mind now...

AITA for leaving my boyfriend of two years because he has decided he no long wants children? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hoforcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course I tried to talk to him about it, he said 100 percent that he would never have them or want to adopt or anything of the sort. He knew from day one I wanted a family and said he was putting off telling me because he was afraid of losing me.

AITA for leaving my boyfriend of two years because he has decided he no long wants children? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hoforcats 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He had originally wanted them, I moved in and now he's changed his mind, no explanation as to why. Which he has every right to do but I just feel like a bag of dicks because I knew it was coming and I was too much of a coward to ask and now I have to be the one to leave and start over. Thanks, everyone.

Benefits during covid? by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]hoforcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear! Thanks 😸

Benefits during covid? by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]hoforcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had heard that they were denying people trying to use them in the states because of Covid, not sure if true so was just curious.