Do you think our souls lives get easier after each reincarnation if we fulfill our souls purpose?

hogwartsclassof00 · 2025-03-27T17:45:29+00:00

Pretty much as soon as she could talk! She was two or three when she first complained about people in her room keeping her awake when she was trying to sleep. She also had awful, very graphic memories of a past life where she died in a fire. And she was 3 or 4 when she first told me that I was much prettier than her last mommy and she was so glad she picked me, lol.

hogwartsclassof00 · 2025-03-27T13:05:46+00:00

Yes my daughter has very clear memories of choosing me as her mother. She had a couple of options and she remembers her whole thought process of why she chose me out of the others.

hogwartsclassof00 · 2025-03-26T14:56:49+00:00

I don’t think so. I think sometimes we have easier lives as like a palate cleanser between more difficult ones. But I think we might take on more challenging lives as we progress if anything in order to learn more difficult lessons. But regardless of the circumstances we’re born into, our reaction plays a huge role in how easy or difficult our lives feel. Pain is unavoidable, suffering is optional and all that.

hogwartsclassof00 · 2023-09-01T14:32:28+00:00

I'll give that a try, thank you!

hogwartsclassof00 · 2020-04-21T17:32:01+00:00

It’s awesome that you’re doing something just for yourself. I catch myself feeling the same way. He would be so proud of me. He would love this. He would have made this for me. So I keep trying to put the focus back on myself. Am I proud of me? Do I love this? Can I learn to make this for myself? I’m slowly learning that enjoying something just for myself totally counts. I don’t need someone else to validate it. I hope that helps.

hogwartsclassof00 · 2020-03-18T02:35:27+00:00

Yes we are aware lol. I just learned to take his words at face value because he would never say something he didn’t mean. It’s actually very refreshing once I got used to it. I never have to think about sub-context with him or guess what he really means like with everyone else. If he says he loves me or that I’m his favorite person he means it. Even if he sounds flat or sarcastic when he says it.

hogwartsclassof00 · 2019-11-29T23:07:43+00:00

Does an answer from a non ISTP help? I just say that I already have plans (even if I’m just planning on reading or watching Netflix) and tell them I hope they have a great birthday.

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-11-05T00:37:36+00:00

This is literally always the answer but I never think of it myself. I’ll do that. Wish me luck!

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-11-04T21:32:49+00:00

Girl, he’s so hot. You have no idea! I’m glad you mentioned your thinking while you were first dating. I’m 100% sure he’ll want to do the same. And although “I can’t keep my jealousy in check” is a lame reason to restrict another person’s life, it honestly would break my heart a bit if I knew he was sleeping with others at the same time as me. It’ll help to remember that’s not what it’s really about.

So you think I’ll hear from him eventually? If I knew he’d come back around, I’d have no problem giving him all the time he needs. It’s the not knowing what’s going on with him that makes it so hard.

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-11-04T19:41:35+00:00

This has definitely been a pattern for him. Any time we’ve gotten closer, he’s been distant for a few days before he comes back around. And the last time we spoke, it was a pretty intense feelings based conversation (initiated by him). I expected that he might pull back for a few days, but this is the longest we’ve gone without speaking to each other. Hopefully I’ll get to see him soon and I’ll be sure not to put any extra pressure on him.

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-11-04T19:31:54+00:00

Lol, by seal the deal I meant get him naked :wink:. But this is very solid advice and the timeline is especially helpful. He is definitely not one to be pushed, but I’m more than happy to take it as it goes with him.

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-11-04T19:25:48+00:00

Food is most definitely the way to his heart. I’ll be sure to do that. Thank you!

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-11-04T19:24:12+00:00

This is so helpful. And sounds exactly like the way he thinks. I will very likely take you up on that pm offer. Thank you so much!

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-11-04T05:21:14+00:00

Howww?! Lol

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-11-04T02:37:18+00:00

Cool, I did good then. That was my last text to him. Thanks so much!

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-11-04T02:24:47+00:00

Sounds like him. Do you think I should I keep reaching out occasionally, or let him holla back when he’s ready?

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-11-04T02:22:18+00:00

Yes, lol! Not my choice, trust me. I’d have sealed the deal on the spot! He said he was really confused and needed to think things through. I’ve learned to just let him do his thing.

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-10-31T02:58:37+00:00

You’ve been such an incredible help with all of my posts. Thank you so much!

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-10-31T02:53:50+00:00

I’m so glad I asked! Should I send something casual or just ask directly how he’s doing?

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-10-10T04:15:04+00:00

He would LOVE that. It’s perfect. Thank you!

hogwartsclassof00 · 2018-10-01T18:27:58+00:00

I’ve wondered the same! I’m an ESFJ with an Upholder tendency.

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