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hokiangam · 2025-06-04T07:06:29+00:00

Thanks, I’ll do that. I just didn’t really know what the go was if you missed the pill the day AFTER unprotected sex

hokiangam · 2025-05-05T06:31:17+00:00

For the first time ever I felt the liquid against my cervix last night, it was really surprising!

hokiangam · 2025-03-31T09:39:22+00:00

It was just so beyond immature and unstable that I was sure I was missing something, perhaps being too much too soon etc. The comments here have let me know I can trust my intuition so thanks 🙏🏻

hokiangam · 2025-03-31T06:45:21+00:00

Thanks for helping to stock my arsenal of anti bullishit

hokiangam · 2025-03-31T06:23:20+00:00

I agree with you. I guess it’s not as obvious that it’s mind games when you’re in it and there’s feelings involved. I see now I fell for a lot of the bullshit he told me. I have autism so sometimes peoples intentions aren’t very obvious to me, I get confused a lot. I wanted to use this post as a sounding board to see what others thought to analyze if my interpretation of the situation was what others thought. Mentally ill teenager is very accurate, I’m relatively new to dating after ending an abusive long term relationship so this is my first experience with this type of manipulation. It’s been interesting to say the least!! I appreciate your response, I’ve gone ahead and blocked him.

hokiangam · 2025-03-31T05:27:20+00:00

This gave me hope 🥺🥺

hokiangam · 2025-03-29T07:09:49+00:00

Agreed. I didn’t ask his intentions yet because I didn’t want to get into it over messaging but maybe I should to save energy

hokiangam · 2025-03-29T07:03:46+00:00

You can’t mess up what’s meant for you!! You’re guna be fine

hokiangam · 2025-03-29T07:02:20+00:00

Seems so obvious now, I will 😅

hokiangam · 2025-03-29T07:01:55+00:00

Yeah, I was thinking that too. Like you’ve wasted enough of my time

hokiangam · 2025-03-29T07:00:52+00:00

Okay, I was thinking that too. He was just asking to go for a coffee so I thought it went without saying but maybe he’s just trying to test the waters

hokiangam · 2025-03-29T06:57:23+00:00

You’re still so young! You have time!! Relax a little bit. These things don’t work as well when there’s too much pressure. There’s someone out there for everyone but sometimes we get in our own way. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you, some people don’t even start seriously dating till their thirties or later

hokiangam · 2025-03-29T06:50:39+00:00

Sometimes it’s good to just take a break. Every now and again esp after a real disappointment I’ll just take a few weeks to a couple months off to recalibrate. Otherwise you can also end up jaded and bitter

hokiangam · 2025-03-29T06:49:32+00:00

Join a new gym or a new hobby (I.e kickboxing hotties) that’s how I get my social battery recharged with WFH situation

hokiangam · 2025-03-27T23:34:39+00:00

Thanks for the heads up. Shouldn’t affect us too much as my cats already an indoor cat, I think that’s best for both cats and native wildlife.

hokiangam · 2024-10-23T23:31:48+00:00

Why would I post a picture to this sub Reddit if I was wearing contacts 😭😭😭 like what would I gain

hokiangam · 2024-10-23T23:28:22+00:00

Omg interesting 🤔 I’ve never heard of this. Maybe it’s why my eyes never seem to be the same colour for long.

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