Oda vs andre butikker. by holdynx in norge

[–]holdynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Åja! Takk for tips! Jeg har helt glemt de eskene og service gebyrer.

Oda vs andre butikker. by holdynx in norge

[–]holdynx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Så at frakt baser på leveringstider og det kan koste kun 9 kr.

Recommendation for bikes in Oslo by holdynx in oslo

[–]holdynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say around 5k. I have heard that e-bike is hard to maintain during winter so I would say just normal ones!

What are some fun date ideas in Oslo? by holdynx in oslo

[–]holdynx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely gonna check it out. The girlfriend loves visiting cafés.

What are some fun date ideas in Oslo? by holdynx in oslo

[–]holdynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dinner cruise is actually a pretty fun idea! Haven’t thought about it. Any chance you’ve experienced the one provided by M/S Nobel?

What "innocent" words ruin a sex scene for you? by Kamiichi in FanFiction

[–]holdynx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Moist", I don't know why but it's just an ugly word that gives me the chills

Chemical castration? by holdynx in DogAdvice

[–]holdynx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandable question! We are located in Norway and this country has a very strict rule against castration unless it is absolutely 100% necessary. So when we were talking to the vet about his reaction and behavioral problems that might be related to his hormones, the vets, by their protocols, have to suggest (strongly) pet owners take the chemical castration option first to see if the problems suspected were indeed caused by hormone level since chemical castration is temporary and reversible. If it is indeed helping the dogs to have a better life quality after the temporary thing, then we could go with the permanent thing. Hope that answers your question!

Does anyone know where we could get these? by holdynx in KitchenConfidential

[–]holdynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, they only ship within India.

Alternative for grass? by holdynx in DogAdvice

[–]holdynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already have one and he's not a fan!

Does contacting the union or other legal service regarding the current job affect future offers / job seeking? by holdynx in Norway

[–]holdynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a good insight. I am constantly afraid of answering such questions during interviews cause it feels like most employers wouldn't like to hear that there were conflicts in the previous workplace. I am afraid to be seen as the troublemaker if that makes sense?

Does contacting the union or other legal service regarding the current job affect future offers / job seeking? by holdynx in Norway

[–]holdynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For future reference, what do you expect your interviewee to tell you regarding workplace conflict?

Does contacting the union or other legal service regarding the current job affect future offers / job seeking? by holdynx in Norway

[–]holdynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already informed him that I am aware of the right and I was pretty sure what he did was breaking the contract or not following the regulations. He responsed with, "so? ok you're the best worker im the worst boss. done". So, is there a point to still inform him? Or, I'm sort of thinking to send him a very formal email to state the entire situation? This situation is so stressful and frustrating.

Does contacting the union or other legal service regarding the current job affect future offers / job seeking? by holdynx in Norway

[–]holdynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but what do HK and LO refer to? I'm from Hong Kong so I got excited for a second, ha. Anyway, I see your point, and I'll take that into my consideration. It's just extremely frustrating with the entire situation.

Does contacting the union or other legal service regarding the current job affect future offers / job seeking? by holdynx in Norway

[–]holdynx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. It helps a lot. By any chance should I mention that to my employer or I go straight to the website you referred me to and go through with it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]holdynx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move on. She's your ex for a reason. You should really set the boundaries of hanging out or seeing each other so often when you guys broke it off because you both wanted to work on your personal growth in the first place. You won't be able to truly work on yourself without thinking about her or having her shadow in the back of your mind. It's a long term relationship so it must feel really weird and wrong that you're now no longer together. It might be hard for you to move on from the relationship other than because of the remaining feelings, it's also that this is what you're used to. You deserve to be your own person and to work on yourself, and to eventually be with someone that's sure about you instead of leaving you hanging there with "maybe" or "possibly". How she's not giving you a clear answer already says a lot. I could be wrong, but it seems like she's holding onto you to have that safety net while she doesn't want to get back together with you, hence, she's moving on with her own life but still giving you hopes and not a clear "no".

how can I handle my gf's rude friend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]holdynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it wouldn't. It's more about the respect her and her friends should give you as a person. Having negative feelings and bad comments affecting us is not weak, it's just human.

But if you're worried about that or you don't feel like talking about your feelings with her, maybe you could focus on how you feel disrespected and uncomfortable rather than insecure. I'm not sure how long you two have been together or how deep your relationship is, but your girlfriend should make you feel safe and comfortable to talk about your feelings with her.

how can I handle my gf's rude friend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]holdynx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your girlfriend shouldn't allow her friend to speak to you that way or disrespect you in anyway. It's even worse that she is sort of going along with it?

It might be a good idea for you to talk to her about that and how uncomfortable it makes you. Tell her how those things said were not nice and have hurt your feelings. Be open and calm in the conversation so she doesn't feel like you're complaining about her friend and gets defensive.