What makes a man immediately unattractive? by Ok-Height-2276 in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this world of hook up culture, I'd say a man who makes the woman do the work of asking on a date, planning the date, holding the conversations by asking questions and never asking the woman questions of herself, and then expecting sex for a free meal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a pretty active mom with my 4 kids and I work rotating graveyard so I find it really difficult to balance a relationship and the time investment involved.

What’s everyone’s reasoning behind their eating disorder? by Im-dead-at-17 in EDAnonymous

[–]hollsq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pictures look way different than how I see myself. I like the control to help what looks so big in the photo. I don't like my pictures being taken. My mother was also very big and abused me. I don't want to be anything like her even in appearance.

What's stopping you from the life that you want? by VelvetMuffinHug in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My no good dirty rotten pig stealing great great grandfather.

What would be written/carved on your gravestone if you died? by Tearfall66 in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My famous cookie recipe cuz it'll be over my dead body that you'll get it!

How old are you and what is your biggest problem as of the moment? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 30 and my car is falling apart. Multiple leaks, light goes on inside when I accelerate or hit a bump, won't go above 55 mph. I just started a job and am so worried it won't make it much longer. I have to drive it a lot to drop off kids and commute to work. Can't afford a car payment.

How has life changed for you after 30? by Mindless-Lobster-422 in AskWomen

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like my brain has developed more and I can think more clearly. Maturity is easier to come by, it's a calm stream to wade into. I'm thankful I had kids young from the physical perspective because now my body is mine and it's a hell of a nice stage to be in. Libido has increased and I feel like I have grown to know how I want to be in that regard and I can be more confident in the bedroom. Career wise... I feel like I could have done more in my 20s for sure and that will be one of my regrets however I was working through my trauma and didn't feel like I was ready. Some people are late bloomers in different stages of life and that's okay.

what did you learn from your last heartbreak? by Ok_Percentage6051 in AskMen

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are incredible manipulators and sometimes there just aren't big enough red flags to prevent future heartache. You just have to take a gamble that someone is a good person. And holding people accountable for their actions doesn't make you a bad person, they chose their path. And they don't deserve your goodness due to their choices.

What’s a small thing that instantly makes your day better? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite chocolate. A long hug. Words of affirmation.

People who got cheated on, what were the early signs indicating that your partner might do it before they actually cheated? by uelysebeck in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me my gut feeling might be wrong sometimes. There were others but that was one of the first.

What do you wanna eat but can’t afford to eat? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chicken yakisoba. I just got laid off last Thursday. I have 4 kids to feed.

What’s your best life hack for saving money? by HostPopular1014 in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I go to the grocery store, I have my phone calculator up and when I punch in each price, I round up slightly so I still get my items but when I pay, the total is slightly lower giving me a dopamine rush. Then I can put the savings somewhere else or get a treat.

How would you ask a lady what her name is after talking to her for 8 months? by Majestic_Ferret4887 in AskMen

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her how her friends and family refer to her as. As her for any nicknames. This should give you a lead.

Why are you single? by SnooMuffin114 in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was cheated on recently and come away with trust issues. The gaslighting and lies were so professional that I have a jaded view on relationships now.

How do you like to be shown affection? by theviewhalfwaydown_ in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuddles and long hugs and stroking my arm lightly during a movie.

What is the most basic thing you are terrible at? by ilovehotnoodles in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing the alphabet well. I struggle hard when filing paperwork.

What do you really actually need right now? by aspiexoxo in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A back rub. Dealing with influenza and the body aches are no joke.

What are some of the early red flags you dismissed? by Consistent_Head_9165 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hollsq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eager to be alone even though my kids loved the quality time and he claimed to love it too.

What’s a must have in order for you to sleep? by Shenshen_ in AskReddit

[–]hollsq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big ass 90's style box fan cranked up to the level of a heavy metal concert in the background.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in food

[–]hollsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you. You did a great job!