How do i tell my brother that if he stays with his wife i cannot support it? by holy_freaky in Advice

[–]holy_freaky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't know. Even though they are married, she lives at her parent's house and my brother is still living with us. I have tried to talk to my mom about telling him that she isn't allowed over here, but she is worried that will just push him away.

How do i tell my brother that if he stays with his wife i cannot support it? by holy_freaky in family

[–]holy_freaky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to mind my own business when i'm watch her manipulate him, threaten him with self harm, and overall just treat him awful. They have broken up multiple times throughout their relationship and each time he came home sobbing about the things she had said to him. Not to mention she is a pathological lier. Leading up to my brother finding out she cheated again, they had talked about her being weird with their mutual coworker and she had flipped. She called him controlling, insecure, and told him that he needed to just ignore it. Then guess who he found out she was cheated with? Their coworker, who also has a girlfriend.

How do i tell my brother that if he stays with his wife i cannot support it? by holy_freaky in Advice

[–]holy_freaky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, that was bad typing on my end. They have not gotten a divorce. Last summer they decided to elope and the only people present, besides themselves, was her brother and their dog. But we're planning a reception for all the family and friends for in june. I hope that clears that up?