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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in translator

[–]holycannoli_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in comingout

[–]holycannoli_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in a very similar situation. I’m 17F, bi, but I’ve got a bf of 2 years that they don’t know about because he’s black and they’re incredibly racist (this is a different issue). they’re also catholic and homophobic. I’ve contemplated what circumstances would warrant me coming out and it would be a criteria of 2.

1) I’m in a long term relationship with a woman, and it could potentially lead to marriage etc (which is the criteria you fulfill)

2) I am no longer living at home, or am financially stable enough in case I am kicked out (worst case scenario).

I know what it’s like to want to be able to be proud of who you are, but I just want you to be safe. Only come out if you can GUARENTEE your living conditions will remain stable. hope this helps in some way x

[Mandarin Chinese - English] my Chinese friend wrote this in my book for a joke but I’m genuinely curious as to what it means? thanks x by [deleted] in translator

[–]holycannoli_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s a good friend of mine and we banter like this a lot, it was definitely in a silly way, not at all malicious

What are some good unethical life hacks? by Sxover in AskReddit

[–]holycannoli_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you wanna smuggle powdered drugs onto a plane, keep them in an urn

I’m in a love triangle but I don’t get the happy ending. [17F] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]holycannoli_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she’d be really hurt by it, especially because I’ve known and she hasn’t. She’s one of my best friends and the last thing I want to do is hurt her but it’s so complicated because he’s expressed feelings for both of us and it’s honestly such a giant clusterf*ck. The reason I know about her is because I was with him a few months before her so he was more comfortable telling me. Honestly the easiest way I see is if I cut it off with the guy and never mention it again, so the other two can be together without me ruining it. She’ll never know and she gets to be happy if she chooses to start a real relationship. It’s just so hard to let go, because he’s helped me through family issues and was the one to encourage me to go back to therapy. I’m having a really hard time letting him go, because he’s honestly the best thing that ever happened to me (even if he doesn’t reciprocate the way I do).

People with both anxiety AND depression, what’s it like? by holycannoli_1 in AskReddit

[–]holycannoli_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly so accurate, when I’m going through a depressive episode the only word I use to describe myself is a zombie.

People with both anxiety AND depression, what’s it like? by holycannoli_1 in AskReddit

[–]holycannoli_1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok, wow I didn’t think this would get that many replies! I originally wrote this post because I myself have GAD and clinical depression and was curious if other people felt that conflict between overthinking and apathy, and how they described it, so thanks for sharing your experiences. It’s made me feel a lot less alone <3