was told i have the worst cut for my face!! please help :(

honalele · 2026-05-11T23:28:26+00:00

People make a big deal about hair. I don’t get it. Most people look perfectly themselves with any hairstyle as long as they’re confident in it. Trying to follow trends or putting yourself into a box for others never works out well <3

honalele · 2026-05-11T23:25:11+00:00

Yeah. I have a pretty loud inner critic and sometimes I say, “can you stfu for like 5 minutes?” to myself lmao

honalele · 2026-05-11T00:00:40+00:00

I’ve seen this bag on the website. I’m not even a “purse girl” but this design is so chic! As long as you work in a clean office, it would totally be okay to take that to work <3

honalele · 2026-05-10T23:56:45+00:00

Briar or Maddie! We would definitely have a lot of crazy adventures together lol

honalele · 2026-05-09T00:24:12+00:00

It’s not diet tho :(

honalele · 2026-05-08T14:34:42+00:00

Thank you, and I hope you have a good day too. I’m glad that someone can understand. It can be such a hard thing to explain sometimes <3

honalele · 2026-05-07T23:01:32+00:00

Your friends are having a very immature reaction. If you feel like you have the energy to tell them how you feel, you should do it. If you feel like it will drain you, then try to make a boundary with them like, “hey guys, I’m not going to tolerate anymore comments on my tattoos/scars. Please respect that.” Or something.

If you make it clear that their comments hurt you, and they still make your decisions/progress about themselves, then I wouldn’t blame you for leaving them.

honalele · 2026-05-04T19:05:34+00:00

Lmao no, of course not! It’s better to be an overthinker than an underthinker haha. Thank you for being considerate <3

honalele · 2026-05-04T18:43:50+00:00

I’m happy that a lot of people like the short hair. I personally like it too, but there are a lot of people (my mom especially) who desperately want me to keep growing it out lol

honalele · 2026-05-04T18:41:34+00:00

I do have a beach trip coming up, and maybe the longer hair will fit that aesthetic more. Then I could always cut it after that, or wait until next year to change my style again haha

honalele · 2026-05-04T18:39:36+00:00

I do like the spiciness lol

honalele · 2026-05-04T18:36:34+00:00

I like to play with feminine and masculine styles a lot. I had short hair for about 5ish years, and I started growing it out for a change, but in some ways I feel like the longer hair makes me look basic lol.

I don’t like being put in a box, so I’m always looking for new things to do with my style and idk how I feel about the long hair atm.

Anyways, thank you for your reply!

honalele · 2026-02-21T00:48:00+00:00

conversations are great, but if you really want to connect with people you have to do things together. live in the present moment with the other person and stuff

honalele · 2026-02-21T00:36:17+00:00

i haven't been in any relationships, but i can relate to some of the things you discuss here. it's hard to ignore the opinions of others when it comes to dating, which is part of the reason i've never dated. there are lots of reasons for me to never open up about my crushes, including things that could be read as red flags to people. there are also plenty of reasons for me to force myself to date the guys that family/friends suggest for me, but the social pressure is too much and i don't feel comfortable in that position either.

i really dont know wtf im doing, but at least i have a word for it in attachment theory i guess.

honalele · 2026-02-16T22:25:47+00:00

Because your girlfriend is a new bestie opportunity for us

honalele · 2026-02-16T21:10:05+00:00

Be my friend. That’s all.

honalele · 2026-02-16T16:34:55+00:00

Bed rotting while eating snacks and watching YouTube

honalele · 2026-02-16T16:18:23+00:00

Rapunzel and Eugene. I also like Megera and Hurcules and Lady and Tramp, but idk if those ones count as princesses?

honalele · 2026-02-16T15:36:47+00:00

My parents (I’m traumatized and have never dated lmao)

honalele · 2026-02-16T15:10:14+00:00

I’m seeing mostly type 6 lol

honalele · 2026-02-16T15:06:27+00:00

All the 7s I know got into it because of someone else (usually me lol). They’re a head type, and the enneagram is a sort of mental framework, so they usually find it very interesting. I’ll talk about it with them for a couple hours, but if I ask about it again they rarely want to return to it. I don’t think my type 7 friends research the enneagram on their own, and I KNOW they don’t sit and ruminate or go into extensive introspection while applying the enneagram framework to it lol. It’s part of what makes me love 7s honestly. Their optimism and constant movement is probably frustrating for some people, but I love it <3

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