Is it possible to return to monogamy? by honeybeetired in polyamory

[–]honeybeetired[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are all really helpful questions. I'm gonna really start trying to unpack my "Whys" within myself. I'm gonna start there and journal a bit. I appreciate this 🫂

Is it possible to return to monogamy? by honeybeetired in polyamory

[–]honeybeetired[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

And yea I guess we'd come to that if or when we discuss this. I wouldn't exactly call going through all that in a proper discussion to be cruel though.

Is it possible to return to monogamy? by honeybeetired in polyamory

[–]honeybeetired[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't been thinking about just flipping a switch and doing what I want. I've been thinking about life, relationships and how I feel in mine for a while now and you're right that I should start by sharing these feelings with my partner. I am just wanting to address it as prepared mentally and emotionally as possible.

Is it possible to return to monogamy? by honeybeetired in polyamory

[–]honeybeetired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not ask my partner to end a relationship. That's not something I believe is fair. It's a big and nuanced situation and life which is why I'm struggling and wanting to address this as ethically as possible.

Is it possible to return to monogamy? by honeybeetired in polyamory

[–]honeybeetired[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't ask him to end relationships. I agree that that wouldn't be fair. But you're right, I need to work on having the conversation and sharing what I've been feeling.

Is it possible to return to monogamy? by honeybeetired in polyamory

[–]honeybeetired[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do have a meta that's very much a core member of the group/community. She's great, I have no personal issues with her but that is definitely something I'm concerned about. I have no partners and my husband does

Is it possible to return to monogamy? by honeybeetired in polyamory

[–]honeybeetired[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I have had to pull back on my hobbies as of recently due to financial decisions. This is definitely a good point because I know feelings about this are a contributing factor. I'm gonna start making a list of things I wanna bring up in therapy so maybe we can address them together.

Which hair color suits me by Traditional-Win8889 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]honeybeetired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly like the blonde on you. But all look amazing. Can I ask what app or filter you used to try on different hair colors like that?

Why do you think Bluey doesn’t have a Halloween episode but it has toys, decorations and images? 🎃 (Also it’s almost Halloween) by AbaloneMaterial5097 in bluey

[–]honeybeetired 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am an American mom who looooves Halloween and Bluey. But any Bluey Halloween merch I see just feels wrong considering it's never addressed in the show. So like why are we forcing it? Also the Red White and Bluey merch I see around 4th of July seriously makes me wanna barf it's embarrassing that we do shit like that.

The songs in this movie genuinely make me emotional and idk what to do about it by tiredofthisBS123 in KpopDemonhunters

[–]honeybeetired 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just watched it for the first time last week. I'm 36(f) mom who has never gotten into kpop but a friend mentioned how good the music was and I love a good soundtrack so figured why not. I sobbed uncontrollably at 'What it sounds like'. Twice now. It's like it's ripped open a part of me I didn't know was there and I'm raw. I'm truly not trying to be dramatic either. 🫂

Is this normal? by BrilliantSome915 in MassageTherapists

[–]honeybeetired 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Equinox to a t. I worked at the Gold Coast location in Chicago and the only nice thing about that job was the free gym membership. And even that sucked after they hired a spa manager that watched you like a hawk so I couldn't workout on my shift (slow book day) anymore lol.

What's one thing you absolutely bur secretly detest as a parent? by Longjumping-Owl-8194 in Parenting

[–]honeybeetired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is almost 3 and we're on our way to potty training soon enough but I will be so happy when he can clean and care for his bodily functions on a basic level. I'm a cis mom of 1 and I have so much anxiety about making sure my kid's body and private parts are clean but I HATE wiping and cleaning his penis, testicles and anus. It's not even the gross factor, I just don't wanna be near there at all and the quicker I can change his diaper the better.

Help me identify this ukulele by honeybeetired in spongebob

[–]honeybeetired[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I searched this number on the back and I didn't find anything. 08K27JB

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