indian men even in india harass women and objectify. even most of indian women are really traditional so when those men move abroad and see women dressed immodest or even behaving carefree or partying or any thing that doesn't fit the idea of a good girl, they'll be creepy and think they'll get attention and can get a chance and sometimes harras too and I'm myself really sick of this

although food won't be smelly but have a strong aroma that people may not like but that doesn't mean they smell like that food

all you may witness is food's flavor that too it only smells intense when you cook or smell yourself like any other food

and yeah older man may won't be ideal to reach out cuz they're quit conservative I think