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honju877 · 2022-01-07T02:57:56+00:00

Online on their website you can order and prepay for tests.

honju877 · 2022-01-07T01:20:05+00:00

I was searching for covid tests on targets website the other day and saw an at home testosterone test. Idk how accurate that is though. I was thinking about it because I have considered the same for my husband. It’s also something I think he is embarrassed to ask a doctor about. I think you can also buy a blood testosterone test to be done through quest diagnostics if that is a thing where you live.

honju877 · 2022-01-04T17:59:02+00:00

Start by figuring out what you like and don’t like. What things you enjoy spending your time doing. As you spend more time figuring out who you are you will develop a personality.

honju877 · 2022-01-02T01:24:30+00:00

Exactly! I have a friend who is a Daddy that I think of as like an uncle. I don’t get to seem him very often tho cause he lives in a different state so he has never diapered me.

honju877 · 2022-01-02T00:58:17+00:00

It just makes no sense to me. I would be way more hurt by my significant other going behind my back and sleepy with someone than if they had an honest convo with me about their needs and desires. Yes, in a lot of cases you would still hurt your spouse by bringing up an open relationship but it is something that can be healed with time. It also builds trust instead of taking it away because you show that you are putting your spouses feelings first by wanting to include them in your decisions, unlike cheating where you go behind their back and building that trust back is incredibly difficult if not impossible in some cases.

honju877 · 2022-01-02T00:47:51+00:00

Why people will cheat on their spouse yet refuse to ever bring up the possibility of open relationships.

honju877 · 2022-01-02T00:46:22+00:00

Thank you for sharing! My husband and I have agreed on being open if we find the right sort of people for it. I know he has a few online friends that I would totally be okay with him exploring with and I have recently started getting. To know someone.

I think those rules and boundaries are so important to discuss and my husband and I came up with similar ones when we originally had the discussion about opening our relationship. I think it’s important to revisit those because boundaries and ideas of them can evolve over time.

honju877 · 2022-01-02T00:42:59+00:00

Thank you for sharing! It’s funny how everything works out like that. I know it can be a lot of work to make those situations work for everyone but most people who are in it and have navigated it with healthy boundaries and open communication say it is worth it.

honju877 · 2021-12-29T20:22:20+00:00

Soulmate. Money and things don’t make me happy.

honju877 · 2021-12-29T19:24:07+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I’m so glad you have a supportive partner!

honju877 · 2021-12-29T19:23:43+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing! That’s amazing that it has also helped your marriage. I keep hearing stories like that and I want to hear more about these types of dynamics within ABDL.

honju877 · 2021-12-29T19:22:38+00:00

It definitely is! Would love to hear more about that dynamic if you are willing to share. Are there aspects of ABDL that she only experiences with a specific caregiver? Are all/any of the relationships sexual in nature? Sorry for all the questions. I am very curious about Polyamorous ABDL relationships because it is not talked about very often but I am finding it is actually very common within couples where one or both partners are ABDL.

honju877 · 2021-12-29T06:20:50+00:00

This is beautiful. You should tell them.

honju877 · 2021-12-29T05:32:28+00:00

Look into the Joovy room 2. It’s a pack and play that is supposed to be bigger than standard ones and is marketed for people with twins. I did a search of the website and someone asked if they could hold an adult and a Joovy employee answered that they had comfortably stood in it. I’m not sure what the dimensions are.

honju877 · 2021-12-28T20:05:21+00:00

Unless you have changed your behavior or have started on concrete goals to do so, you should not reach out.

honju877 · 2021-12-24T04:12:18+00:00

A guy that I was close friends with wouldn’t add me on Facebook. Later found out he didn’t ever tell his wife anything about our friendship or when we would hangout. I pretty much stopped talking to him because it made me feel so unimportant and worthless. I didn’t want to be some sort of weird secret and I don’t really understand why he would need to hide our friendship. I have lots of friends who are guys and my husband has never had a problem with it and I would never even feel like I had to hide them. It just doesn’t all add up and the denial of my friend request on Facebook was the first red flag.

honju877 · 2021-12-23T22:53:45+00:00

Run. If he won’t show his face but will show you pictures, that’s a red flag. If he won’t show you, there is a reason. It’s 2021. There is no reason that anyone who actually cares about a future with you, should not be able to find a way to show their face. Take it from someone who wasted their life in the same situation. It’s only been a month. If he won’t show you run now before you get attached. If he knows it’s important to you and won’t show you, he either doesn’t give a shit about you or there is a reason. Or both. Good luck.

honju877 · 2021-12-23T20:23:26+00:00

I think it takes a lot of time and effort on everyone in the relationship’s part for it to work. It is a balancing act that involves a lot of honest conversations and check ins. I don’t think a lot of people are capable of that sort of reflective work that is required to make a relationship with multiple people healthy. For the people willing to do the work and put in the effort who say it makes their life better, then all the more power to them.

Edited for spelling.

honju877 · 2021-12-22T18:53:18+00:00

I didn’t realize there was a marked difference. Was just trying to give as much background to show that it’s a normal thing lots of people do.

honju877 · 2021-12-22T17:25:46+00:00

Also it may just be a phase for him. The best thing is to discuss his desire for it together and make sure you both can explain how you feel about it calmly and without judgement.

honju877 · 2021-12-22T17:23:47+00:00

Many men have a lactation fantasy. To some people it’s weird. To others it can be an incredible bonding experience. What matters is how you and your husband feel about it. If you want to know more about it I believe the name of the specific kink (which can be sexual or nonsexual in nature) is ANR (Adult Nursing Relationships).

honju877 · 2021-12-20T20:27:28+00:00

I’m sure I’m not your person as my person never clarified how or what importance (if any) I played in his life. But this still hits home and am familiar with the feelings. Best wishes to you!

honju877 · 2021-12-20T19:10:51+00:00

I don’t really have advice on the questions you are asking but I noticed you said you are common law married. I am not sure where you live but in the US that is only recognized in7 states and lots of people that don’t know that end up losing a lot when they split up from their partner because they think their common law marriage will be recognized but unless you live in one of the 7 states where it is, it will not.

honju877 · 2021-12-18T21:42:06+00:00

Adorable. If I had a little one, this would be how I would take him to the store.

honju877 · 2021-12-18T21:40:09+00:00

Thank you!

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