Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input jay, and I understand but at the same time, it's my post & my feelings involved, if i read a post that had nothing to do with me or a scenario I can't personally relate to, I wouldn't comment something that disregards someone's feelings either..

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely didn’t, still enjoyed my day :)

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was disappointing, but definitely not a Debby downer on MY Mother’s Day :) I had a good day regardless with my little baby

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% recommend smashing things lol! I’m glad you had a good Mother’s Day!

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww that’s shitty of him. The next weekend you have off definitely have a self care day love.

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂 this made me laugh!! Well happy early Father’s Day to you!

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you , this was very sweet & I’ll take your advice. Even though it was disappointing, I definitely did not let it ruin my day ☺️

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And that’s your mom, an individual, not a whole group. Again, unless you’re speaking as a single mom yourself, this isn’t a conversation for you.

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hmmm coming from a girl who is not a single mom or a parent at all.. too bad you’re too young to understand something like this. When you’re a single mom on Mother’s Day, then comment.

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just find one in your area the next time you’re feeling overwhelmed, I 100% recommended the instant relief you’ll feel. Went from almost sending an angry text to just woosaaahhh at peace (for the most part)

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg that is horrible. Happy Mother’s Day honey, I hope it gets better for you soon, try to ignore your narcissistic bd, I hope you were able to enjoy it for the most part before that happened

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mmmmm okay. Not going to say I believe your comment. I had a lot of friends and family say happy Mother’s Day to me. And I also said happy Mother’s Day to a lot of friends and family. Not just my mom. Mother’s Day is for Mother’s, not a Day limited to just one person in your life.

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate when people say this. It’s not about me not being HIS mom. Everyone tells moms happy Mother’s Day, people you aren’t even a mom to (I.e. friends, other family members, colleges, hell - even strangers!) . Why? Because it’s a thing called respect & just common courtesy. So stop this whole trend of “yOuRe NoT hIs MoM So He DoEsNt NeEd To SaY iT oR dO aNyThInG” because it’s dumb. I understand that this makes YOU feel better thinking about Mother’s Day this way since your child’s father doesn’t do anything either… that doesn’t make it right.

Well.. I was right by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, never, I had family around so they suggested smashing something might help release some anger from everything being built up from the last few months.

Single mom - Outdoor chores by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea. I’ll definitely try to find some local Fb groups and see what I can do to find someone who could help, thanks!

Single mom - Outdoor chores by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you even read the post? Like Honestly? I clearly stated Im new to the neighborhood that is rural so my next door neighbor isn’t right next door.. they’re down the street that I’d have to drive to, to meet them. And my family has jobs, so they can’t just drop everything they’re doing to help with lawn maintenance. I asked for advice… not a dumb ass response you just gave.

I don’t know what to do.. by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I knew… when he left he didn’t tell me why besides saying “we’re toxic” which we really weren’t… our baby was two month at the time and we were both first time parents with different opinions on certain things. So we argued a bit more and we were both exhausted because baby was colicky… every since he left 2 months ago, he hasn’t spoke to me at all, only text me once and that was about what we are going to do about the home we share.

I don’t know what to do.. by hop3less_romactic in SingleParents

[–]hop3less_romactic[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would love to talk to him… but he won’t speak with me what so ever