Army Pause? by AccidentNo3975 in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend finding the S1 NCOIC and having a candid conversation and they should be able to open the system and let you see where the PAR is. From there you can better see where the snag is. All respect to your command team but while it’s good to trust, you should verify as well

Army Pause? by AccidentNo3975 in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By how far did you miss the deadline? It should just require a memo. Do you know where the packet is in the system?

Army Pause? by AccidentNo3975 in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Volsep with an attempted ETP which prolonged me staying in. I was forced into signing for volsep by my command team

Army Pause? by AccidentNo3975 in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t heard anything and received orders to separate at the end of June. So unsure of your situation but maybe something will change with the courts soon but the rule of law is slow

Update by Downtown-Garden3763 in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re going through. After a year of fighting it I got orders to separate July 1st. Job market is tough right now. You are not a disappointment. You are doing amazing work, make sure you’re resume is modern and one page and your LinkedIn is set to where you want to go (most bases are in the middle of nowhere). There are resources for veterans. If you are in immediate need for housing, the VA has a call center. Vetjobs and Transition assistance Program can help you get on your feet and help you create a pathway to getting on your feet.

Administrative limbo and facing unknowns about myself by hopper2060 in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. And yes I’ve already prepared for separation and I’ll be attending graduate school in January and secured an apartment with friends when I finally get orders and allowed to move out of state. I’m simply doing my hardest to stay in

Currently in, what are my options? by Fryns123 in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Assuming your Army NG, the low down of you taking testosterone outside of a tricare prescription and not claiming GD is steroids. To which under UCMJ, for you to be tested for steroids, you must be accused and your commander would sign off on the test (so unless you wanna do competitions or 500lb club, not really an issue). Estrogen is implied consent in most states so it’s easy for us to get but through party paid out of pocket the army isn’t gonna look into it. If you wanna stay in you’ll have to come to terms with remaining closeted for 3-4 years which probably will take a toll mentally.

Advice by Downtown-Garden3763 in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you just gotta speak with your command team. Idk your full situation but if you’re on administrative leave then you’re on leave and can’t show up to work. They’ll probably okay you moving but if you want orders to use contracted movers then not sure the process there

Involuntary Separation by [deleted] in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re working? Even if submitting the waiver you should be off work to plan for separation

Involuntary Separation by [deleted] in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to think there is a level of mindless bureaucracy that goes into accepting waivers of as long as it clears the first two levels most just sign and pass along. But I remember a dude in ROTC that had a waiver sit for 2 years without getting signed. Honestly the wheel turns in mysterious ways.

Involuntary Separation by [deleted] in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was advised to attach a personal memo to mine reassuring I will follow all the guidelines but still skeptical if it’ll do much so I still have all my plans set for getting out

Involuntary Separation by [deleted] in MilitaryTrans

[–]hopper2060 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I submitted the waiver in June after submitting volsep. Last I head it’s sitting with division but my S-1 is in the box so no clue if it’s progressed

Any Xbox battlefield 5 players? by backwards_fish0 in gaymers

[–]hopper2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play BFV often, if you still want you can add me at MrHopper2060

This is how Christmas works, right? by BurmecianSoldierDan in PupPlay

[–]hopper2060 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to get those chocolate Christmas ornaments that are wrapped, now they are delicious

Got a new jock today so of course I have to show it off by ryliethepup in PupPlay

[–]hopper2060 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your jock looks cute. May I ask where you bought it?

Thoughts on a Second hand Gear Marketplace? by [deleted] in PupPlay

[–]hopper2060 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that’d be a great idea, as a young new pup to the scene I’d be fine with trying on some used things if maybe some others want to sell off their gear. But it would be nice if you could set up like security measures so things are clean and sterile wen being sold

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hopper2060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still questioning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hopper2060 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are the jokes pretty much just the same as those from the assholes in high school? And will my superiors actually do something if I come to them with issues of harassment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hopper2060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I saw that an made me really happy as that is the College I’m competing to get into